Men's Guide 2 Sex On: Top 10 Geeky Dating Mistakes Us Geeks Make

Dating for us geeks is better than ever. Geek is chic and we no longer have to hide the passion for our nerdy habits. We can express ourselves confidently and still get the girl. However there are some things we tend to do that turn women off. Here is a list of the top ten dating mistakes us geeks make.

1 ) Over-Explaining

I remember when a girl asked me how is Bio-Diesel made when I told her I use it in my car. I think I went on for close to fifteen minutes explaining from start to finish the process from turning vegetable oil into Bio-Diesel. She finally stopped me and teased me pretty hard for it. Your date may not find it as endearing.

2 ) Being Condescending

Just because we know a lot about a lot of things never gives us the right to make someone feel stupid. Sometimes simply just taking a moment to ask “How familiar are you with it?” before explaining it as if they were five years old will allow you to save face.

3 ) Know-it-all/always being right

It is hard being smarter than everyone around us (at least we think we are). As soon as I learned to try to see someone else’s point of view fully before explaining my opinion it was a lot more comfortable to be around me. Try to see someone else’s side of things first and relate to it.

4 ) Fashion – Tennis shoes all the time

If you are the guy who wears white tennis shoes in every situation, it is time to go shopping. Buy yourself some nicer shoes for work or casual social events. You don’t have to go crazy but even some more trendy sneakers will go a long way. Sketchers make lots of inexpensive shoes that are as comfortable as tennis shoes but are a little bit more fashionable. You could even branch out and try some more fashionable going out shoes or boots. Just make sure they aren’t too out there if that is not your personality. Women do notice shoes.

5 ) Fashion – Wearing clothes that don’t fit

It is time to stop dressing like the clothes were hand-me-downs. Oversize shirts do not hide your gut or your lack of biceps. The shoulder seam of your shirts should be within an inch of the corner of your shoulder, not down on your arm. Pants should not be baggy; while they shouldn’t be skin tight they should fit well without being too constrictive. Ask a sales woman to help you find sizes that fit and try going too small and too big to understand what the right fit is.

6 ) Fashion – Out of date clothes

Wearing a t-shirt or sweatshirt that was your parting gift from high school is not a statement of loyalty; it’s a statement that you are too lazy to buy new clothes once in a while. Retire your clothes if they are out of date. I usually try to not wear clothes longer than one to two years and sometimes three if I don’t wear them that often. Subtle changes over a few years actually show up and while people may not point it out, it makes you look dated.

7 ) Texting or emailing while talking

I have a bad habit of surfing the web when talking to friends and even women. If you are having a conversation, put down the game, the phone, the email, etc. Pay attention and be in the conversation

8 ) Being defensive when teased

Roll with the punches. Go read a bit about the improv idea "yes and," and learn how to be more playful and flirty.

9 ) Asking for feedback on a date

This is a big one. Don’t ever ask how you are doing on a date. Don’t ask whether she likes you or not or if she is having fun. Nothing shows more insecurity then checking in frequently on a date. Have fun and enjoy your time together. If she is not into you, or not having fun, that is her responsibility to end the date or tell you. It only makes it awkward for you to ask. If she says no, what are you going to do about it? Getting to the second date will tell you more than any answer she gives you.

10 ) Self Deprecating

Comedians are great at self deprecating humor. Leave it for them to do. While you shouldn’t be bragging, conversely don’t put yourself down. It shows a lot of insecurity. I mean honestly when a woman tells me she is fat, I almost want to smack her. It is like fishing for a compliment, I don’t want to pander to her insecurities. You shouldn’t make women feel that way either by putting yourself down.



BY: Dan McDonley

Mens guide 2 Sex On: The Keys To Successful Dating For Men

Dating is probably one of the most exciting yet daunting adventures any single individual might ever encounter. Traditional dating—meeting up, going out and eating out—with somebody you are interested with can be a challenge as well as a learning experience for everyone.

More than the women, men feel more pressured when going out on a date because they are expected to do almost everything to make the date a success. Since they are the ones who will carry out most of the so-called “dating tasks” here are some tips that can help men go through with the exciting process of dating the girl they are interested with.

BARING THE BASIC DATING ESSENTIALS

Dating can be a daunting task especially for those men who haven’t dated for a long time, for those who haven’t been successful with women, and even for those guys who are so used to dating without knowing the basic rules in playing the game.

Remember, people need conform the rules whether they like it or not. In the case of dating, there are simple rules that need to be followed to ensure success for both parties.

1. Ensure cleanliness by keeping on eye on your hygiene and style. The worst thing any man can do is to turn up on a date smelling, unshaven, and looking dirty so the first thing you should do is to take a bath, brush your teeth, and shave those stubborn stubbles. Men who do not know how to maintain hygiene are no-nos for the more hygienic sex. So it pays to spray on some decent cologne and gargle before you meet up with your date.

2. Dress up to look your best. Looking your best when you go out on a date gives the idea that you have prepared for the special occasion even if it’s only a first date. If you don’t have enough dough to buy new shoes or clothes, at least try to wear those decent ones to impress your date.

3. Be on time. The first impression of women is usually based on how much men value their time. If you ask a woman on a date, make sure that you can turn up on time because not doing so will give her the impression that you don’t value your word. If you don’t want your date to think you are unreliable, try be early or at least on time when going out on a date.

4. Before asking someone out, make sure you have a job to flaunt. Women always find security in men you are secured themselves. Although financial stability is too early to discuss, your current job will give her an idea if you can manage dating her for a long time. Men who have jobs give women the impression that they are ambitious and they have the will to go on top.

5. Do all the necessary preparations. Preparing for things you can say during the date will ensure the easy flow of conversation all throughout. Getting your knowledge levels up and sharing it with your date will definitely make her date interested. The safest topic to discuss includes current events so make sure you watch the news or read quality broadsheets.

6. Know when to stop talking and start listening. Opening up topics for a conversation will pave the way for an interesting intellectual stimulation but you must know when the ice has been broken. After you have given your thoughts on a certain topic, ask her what she thinks and listen to her intently.

7. Issues on bills. The general rule in dating is that whoever asks for that date should pay for it. Since you are the one who asked for and you are the man, then, by all means, you should pay the bill. But if the idea of your paying for the entire bill does not sit well to the woman you’re dating and she insists paying for her own, make a compromise. Suggest that she pays the half and you’ll pay for the rest.

8. Being a gentleman pays. Simple things that show your gentleness like holding the door open for her, letting her walk through the door first, and pulling out a chair for her will definitely make an impact on her. Showering her compliments throughout the day will also make her think that you appreciate her efforts of looking good for the date.

9. Watch out for body language. After the date, watch out for her body language before attempting to kiss her goodnight or before trying to seduce her to jump into your bed. Sex on first date is not a good thing unless she wants to. Lastly, don’t tell her that you’ll call her if you don’t have plans of doing so.

10. If you are serious in the woman you’re dating, start learning how to live a healthy life. Smoking and drinking only show irresponsibility and carelessness because you are not taking care of your health

By: Dr Nathalie Fiset

Men's Guide 2 Sex On: Attract Beautiful Girls With Seduction Stories - Master Seduction With Powerful Stories

Telling a girl seduction stories is a great method to attract her. In fact, I would argue it is one of the most powerful techniques when it comes to attracting girls. It is an effective way to turn them on and get them in the right mood.

In order to be successful in this seduction technique, it is essential that you already have built a bit of chemistry and comfort with her. This isn't something you would do when you first approach a girl. This is something that you do at a later stage, after the initial approach, the flirtation and the exchange of phone numbers. The best time to employ this method is probably during the first or second date with her.

Let us say you are now on a date with her. I would start of by asking her to tell you a story about the a time she when she was seduced. Tell her she should share with you her favorite seductions stories. Ask her to give as much detail as possible and be descriptive. A good way to get her in the right mind set, is to ask her to think of it as a film and that she is rewinding the film and playing it. She should make sure every scene is enlarged. This will encourage her to get more into it.

As she is telling the story look at her straight in the eyes. Smile from time and time and seem interested in what she has to say. At one point ask her to close her eyes as she is telling the story. As she closes her eyes, hold her hand for a few minutes and pull back. Some men have no idea how powerful this technique is, it works like magic.

Encourage her to tell a few stories. As she finishes her story, you should then share your own story with her. If you don't have one, make up one. There are plenty of places you can go on-line to come up with a great story to share with her.

The final part of this technique is key. In order for the seduction stories to get her attracted to you, you should incorporate yourself into the stories. When she is telling you a story, tell her to imagine the guy in the story is right in front of her, which of course is you! When you are telling your story, include her in the story. Say she looks just like the girl you are talking about it. What will happen here is she will link you to her seductive moments.

Men's Guide 2 Sex On: How To Retain A Woman's Interest After You Approach Her

I see it all the time. A guy approaches a woman, saying a few words, and then the conversation just sort of fades out...

After a certain point, the guy didn't attract her attention and pretty much runs out of things to say. After that, the girl brushes him off and he's left scratching his head.

Whether you're meeting women at parties, coffee shops, bookstores, bars, or nightclubs, without keeping the ball rolling after approaching them, your chances of success are grim.

If you can't follow up and continue the conversation after you've approached the girl, you're destined for one failure after another. And as you can imagine, that will get pretty frustrating pretty fast!

Some guys know how to start up conversations with girls - it's easy enough to do if you have a good pick up line that actually works. But taking it BEYOND that initial conversation is always the part guys run into trouble with.

This part is riddled with boring questions, awkward silences, and desperate attempts to salvage a sinking ship. For the life of them, most guys just don't know what to talk about with women!

I wasn't born with any real gift when it comes to smooth talk. Like a lot of men before me, I'd do a lot of work in trying to get a woman to like me. I'd constantly monitor every word that came out of my, internally edit things before saying them, and the end results weren't better than before. I just ended up more self conscious and had even less to say!

As it were, I'd get a very typical reaction- the girl would usually, in a very polite manner, excuse herself, get up, and leave. And I'd never see her again.

But then, I made a breakthrough discovery...

Have you ever noticed that when you're talking to a girl you're NOT attracted to, how easy it is to carry on a conversation? You can just focus on having a good time, shoot the breeze, and talk about anything, no matter how silly or stupid it may seem?

The key here is not about trying to keep the girl engaged, it's about trying to make YOURSELF feel comfortable!

Once you can be relaxed and loosen up, you naturally become a more engaging guy!

But being comfortable with a girl isn't enough. You also have to be able to build sexual tension while talking to her, otherwise, there's nothing to keep her interested in you.

So the best way to quickly engage a woman, and keep her engaged, is to talk to her the same way you'd talk to a girl you already know, feel comfortable with, and think is attracted to you.

That last part is key! Believing the girl is already attracted to you (even if she isn't) helps put you in the right mindset to create the sexual tension you need to build up attraction.

You've got to figure out the subjects you talk about with women you know. Then use these same conversation topics with women you've just met.

Then act like you have known the woman for years, and work with the presupposition that she's deeply in to you. Try it and you will have a far easier time in keeping a woman engaged.

Men's Guide 2 sex On: How to kiss a woman.

Every guy out there wants to know how to make out better. Let's be honest - it's fun! It also leads to things escalating to the bedroom.

But too many guys underestimate the importance of a good make out session.

Making out with a girl is a big deal. It's usually the thing that happens between you and a woman that is totally unambiguous. You can't go backwards from a make out session. It's the bright red dividing line between "friends" and "romance"

When you make out with a girl, it becomes undeniable to each other that your relationship is more than just a "friendship."

No matter how much you hang out with a girl, flirt with her, or touch her, everything can still be considered "innocent." Even if you both are certain that your relationship with each other is progressing into romance or the bedroom, making out with each other removes all uncertainty from the equation.

The real danger in making out with a girl is the fact that the act of kissing, touching, petting, and all that other stuff releases the tension you've built up to that point.

Without tension, there's a danger there of "losing the moment" and having the girl lose interest. Trust me - this happens more than you'd think. Without good timing and good follow-up, making out with a girl can kill your chances with her in the long term.

Since kissing is usually the first unambiguous part of making out, once you and a woman start flirting and connecting, and you begin to build that tension, she starts anticipating it.

She'll probably go nuts imagining what it's like to kiss you, and she will really want to find out if you are a good kisser. This uncertainty and tension are fun and exciting for her!

After you kiss her though, the tension and uncertainty are gone.

You can avoid this sort of letdown though, by re-establishing the tension when you start to kiss her. This will ensure that the tension escalates further.

This is important because you want to keep her on that romantic emotional high she's experiencing. Without tension, those emotions she's feeling could disappear. To create more tension during your make-out, try this:

1. Kiss her like she kisses you. If she's a soft kisser, kiss her softly. If she's using a lot of tongue, use your tongue a lot. People kiss the way they like to be kissed! Use that to your advantage.

2. Don't stay lip-locked for too long. Pull back, break off the kiss, then go back in again. a long sessions of short kisses is better than a short session of long kisses.

3. Tease her physically. Run your hand up her leg, but pull it away before you get too high . Run your hand up her lower back, under she shirt. But don't take this too far! Again, you don't want to make her uncomfortable by moving too fast.

4. Kiss her neck. Don't stay on the lips, move to her neck, her shoulders (if you can), and her ears. These are all erogenous zones, so if you spend some time kissing them, it will work to get the girl you're with more excited.

5. Talk to her. Don't forget the power of auditory stimulation! Break off from a kiss occasionally and whisper in her ear. Ask her to re-affirm what's happening. Say things like "Does this feel good?" or "Tell me how much you like this..." The more you can get a girl to affirm what's happening during the make-out, the more tension you'll build.

Above all else, do not try and make out without any tension built up beforehand! You can and most likely will blow your shot at her.

This tension is the key to a good make-out session. You need it before you start, and while you're making out, otherwise, you'll run into trouble. Never forget that.

Mens guide 2 Sex On:Seduction Ideas For Men

You might have gotten out of a long term relationship, or possibly just haven't had much luck with ladies. You might be uneasy around attractive women. Unfortunately, it's almost always up to men to make the first move, which is a difficult position to be in. The good news is they are several things you can do to make you look like a much cooler person than you are. Making a real connection is great, and some of the strategies below can help you make that.

One of the best things that you can do is have a wingman. A wingman is a friend who's willing to help you meet someone, usually at the expense of his own luck that evening, and if you find someone who's willing to do this for you and is good at it to boot, don't let him go! A wingman can do things for you like walk over and say, "My buddy's been watching you all evening." Essentially, it's his job to talk you up and make you look good and it can make a huge difference.

You will also want to learn a little about body language. Once you know a little bit, the rest tends to come naturally. When a girl is interested in you, she will turn her whole body towards you. If you are chatting a woman up and she's only turning her head to hear what you have to say, you might have found someone who's just not interested. Conversely, if she's into you, you'll find that she turns her back on the rest of the gathering and gives you her full attention. Try speaking a little more softly; if she's into you, she'll lean closer instead of just asking "What?"

You can start a conversation with a compliment, but do be sincere. There's a ton of pick up lines out there, and while they do have their place, they do tend to sound rather canned. I recommend trying to say something that makes her feel special. Complimenting her on something she obviously put a lot of work into is a great place to start. Everyone wants to be recognized for their efforts, and doing something like this is a great way of going about it.

Remember that whether you've spent the last hour flattering her, or you've bought her plenty of drinks that this does not entitle you to a single thing. You can ask whatever you like, but it's important not to sound whiny or desperate; this is simply a sign for her to take off... or call over her big, protective male friends! If someone says she's not interested, shrug, smile, and say that you just wanted her to know that she was beautiful, or that she should enjoy the drink. There's a better than average chance that this will make her reconsider, and even if she doesn't, one of her friends might be picking up the ball where she dropped it!

If the situation moves on to kissing, there are a lot of ways to get a girl to kiss you when you first meet. Be careful though. Surprise kisses can lead to some trouble, including slaps to your face and pissed off male friends. Instead, ask her "May I kiss you?" If she asks why, you can tell her that you think she'd be a great kisser. This works quite well. When you do kiss her, let her dictate where things go. Show some restraint, let her lead, but don't be afraid to let her know you are open to more. She'll appreciate this and will be impressed by your restraint.

As you can see, there are plenty of ways to seduce women; just work with the technique that makes it your own and go into it with some confidence. In a lot of ways, confidence is the name of the game, and you're not going anywhere without it!

Men's Guide 2 Sex On: Reading Her Body Language

Imagine if you could be armed with the power intuitive skill of reading female body signals? What kind of impact would that have on your dating life? How much more successful would you be if you had this valuable knowledge? The obvious answer to the above questions is by being armed with such golden information, you will have an advantage over most men in being able to pick up on women's vibes. This will undoubtedly improve your game with women.

It is actually not that hard to understand what women are thinking if you are able to read their body language, especially when it comes to flirting. There are a few signals you should be on the look out for when interacting with a woman. If the woman is displaying more then one of these things then most likely she is interested in you.

Below I have listed the most essential female body signals to read:

1. She plays with her hair. If a woman is playing around with her hair, then she is most likely has a crush on someone. It is a powerful indication of interest, some would argue the most powerful indication.

2. She smiles often whenever you say something. You might even be saying something that is stupid and she will still smile. This means she is in to you.

3. Her pupils are dilated. This is a classic sign to look for. I don't believe it is the most powerful sign, that is why I didn't put in the first two points, but I do believe there is some truth in it as selective research suggests.

4. She holds direct eye contact with you for an extended period of time. Furthermore, she is looking straight into your eyes. This is an obvious sign she has a crush on you.

5. She checks you out. She looks at your entire physique. You catch her looking at your legs, at your behind, at various parts of your body. This is an extremely powerful sign she is into you and means she is into you big time and most likely wants to hook up with you.

I have listed the five most essential things to look for when reading female body signals. With the above information, you will have a female interest radar under your chest. Now go ahead and hit on those girls with the knowledge of knowing if you are getting anywhere. Never waste a minute again!

Men's Guide 2 Sex On: What Not To Do

No matter the subject it as always as useful to know what NOT to do, as it is to know what to do. I'm here to tell you, I am uniquely qualified to tell you how NOT to attract desirable sexy women. Why? Because I spent dang near 10 years perfecting that art before I stopped doing what doesn't work, and started doing what DOES work.

So, today, we're going to talk about what NOT to do when it comes to attraction. This will give you a handy guide of things to avoid when interacting with any sexy woman.

First off, don't try to impress her by talking about yourself, how much money you make, the playoff game you won, etc., etc. Believe me, she's heard all that before, by men who are smarter, better looking, and more successful than you or I. Instead, ask her genuine, open-ended questions about herself, and pay close attention to her answers. Shut off the conversation in your own head, and pay attention to her--you'll be amazed at how this creates attraction.

Don't ask her if "you can take her out," or if she "has a boyfriend," or if you can "have her number." You're letting her define the relationship, which sexy women HATE. In addition, questions like these activate subconscious processes that lead to autopilot answers (like NO!). It's the same thing as a salesperson asking you, "Can I help you?" and you saying, "No thanks, just looking." Switch the question to, "What specifically are you looking for?" and you'll get a better answer--same thing when setting up a second meeting with the woman you're talking to. "Let's continue this conversation over coffee sometime," works a heck of a lot better than, "Can I take you out?"

Don't shower her with compliments about her beauty, looks, etc.

She's already heard it, and knows you're trying to "compliment your way into her pants." Treat her like a human being, ask her about her hopes, dreams, and desires from a place of genuine interest, not the ulterior motive of getting your hands on her. Although it sounds obvious, this is actually a very subtle shift in thinking for most men--she'll pick up on the fact that you're NOT lusting after her, when every other guy she's talked to that day is... and start to wonder what's different about you. Give her a "bad time in a good way," teasing her about her looks, what she says, etc.

Attraction is a give and take, it has a rhythm to it. Switch from sincere to teasing, and back again--it's this switching that creates attraction.

Don't ask her, "So where do you want to go?" Take the lead, and suggest several places--"Hey, let's go here... sound good to you?" is much better than the above question. If she doesn't want to go there, then ask her for suggestions. Believe it or not, this was a big breakthrough for me--I always thought sexy women would be offended if I did this, but turns out they really enjoy it.

Don't plan your life around her--live your own. This kills more relationships than probably anything else--women want to be with a strong guy, not a surrogate mommy to a little kid.

Again, a lot of these things are common sense, but as they say, common sense ain't so common. Most of us are socially conditioned to do the things I just mentioned, and we actively have to avoid them. I know I do--even with everything I know, I occasionally find myself slipping back into the above behaviors, and they lead to predictable results--the death of attraction.

Men's Guide 2 Sex On: Three Good Tips For Dealing With Women

So you've begun to realize that knowing how to get women is an ability that you have to develop, and not something only a few fortunate individuals are born with. And, since how to attract women isn't something you can learn about at school, you're in all probability armed with just the inadequate expertise you gleaned from friends and cousins or other relatives while growing up. If you have concluded that what you've got is not exactly a strong basis for how to succeed with girls, don't despair; stand by for three steps to follow on the path to success that many males almost never learn...

1)Don't Take Advice From Women

Women drool over those alpha males who don't appear to give a damn about what others think. This is the X-factor that gets the girls in a tizz, that sets them wondering "just WHO is that man? "

Unless you've been hiding under a rock, I'm certain you've noticed that the blokes who succeed most with stunning girls just also happen to be some of the most unrefined you know! Naturally this is opposite to what you expect - don't all your girlfriends advise you that they really want a nice, well mannered man, someone who has a big heart, with a welcoming nature and who really loves his mom? Sorry chaps, despite what the women say, the proof is overwhelming...nice guys come last!

So, friends, stop listening to advice from women on how to get women! They actually don't understand what they really prefer. Instead, give more attention to the males that ladies are actually going out with, messing around or going to bed with.

2)Understand That Women Are Suckers For Guys With High Social Value

People, and their environment, have undoubtedly changed widely since ancient times. Nonetheless, you have got to understand that we still follow patterns of behaviour that were established many thousands of years ago.

Back then, women had to find men who could fend and care for them. The males that could do that were strong, competent warriors and excellent hunters. They were respected and very much in demand - which implies they possessed high social value.

This is still true today, but it translates to women being attracted to men who are powerful in some way which is appropriate to modern times. And it does not entail that you be in the top ranks of leaders and winners - you don't have to be a sports champion, a public figure, or very rich. But you need to be powerful in your very own way, assured and at ease with yourself, and first and foremost, naturally so...the ideas nonchalant and easily confident spring to mind.

Males with high social value are well-liked by both men and women. They never chase (not overtly, anyway) - that is definitely a real social value monster! And keep in mind, women also possess social value: the more socially valuable a woman is, the greater the odds that she's going to want a male who values himself highly and who is confident that women need or want him, rather than the other way round.

3) Smile When You Are Rejected

One of the first things they teach in sales training courses, is to be glad when you are rejected. Why is this? Because it means you are now one step closer to the next yes! And realistically, there is not and never has been a man who in all honesty scored a Perfect Ten in picking up women. Not even Casanova or Don Juan. Well...maybe they did darn well, but you get my meaning!

What this means is that if you would like to select from the world's loveliest women, you just have to bury all your fears — you have got to put yourself in situations where you are able to meet females and ask them on dates.

Unavoidably, every now and again one of them will say no. Fortunately though, the more women you approach, the more often you will thrill to the happy tones of " Yes! " This will happen more and more as you continue developing your knowledge of how to get women.

Mens guide 2 sex on : why the art of picking up women is a skill that anyone can do.

    Picking up women may not be your best skill. Luckily, you don't need any special talent. Knowing how to get women to adore you is not a natural gift. It's actually something that anyone can learn, regardless of age, experience, etc. You're probably sick and tired of all the rejection you've experienced over the years and you might even think that there is no chance you're going to find anyone at all. There is good news. You will find someone. As a matter of fact,

there isn't a guy on this planet who cannot become an expert at picking up women, but of course, some effort is required.

Luckily for you, picking up women won't be as difficult as you think. The first thing you must do is go where the women are. You can sit inside your house and daydream all day about the type of woman you want to end up with, but unless you go out and find her, nothing will happen.

Before going out to find the woman or women you seek, you must look your best. Take some time to fix your hair and put on a nice outfit. Making sure that you're attractive is a requirement. Your looks will be her first impression of you. You want to make sure that you exude an attractive, well groomed vibe. Women find men who do not take care of themselves quite disgusting and usually won't pay them any attention when approached by them.

When it comes to going out and actually picking up women, the place you go is very important. Are you a confident individual? If so, then you won't mind competing against the other guys in more popular social settings such as clubs and bars. If you're not so confident, you might even want to consider visiting a library, mall, or even a public event such as a job fair or possibly your local flea market. Wherever there are females is perfect.

As soon as you spot a woman you're attracted to, you must approach her. You want to make sure that you do this in a very subtle way. The last thing you want her to think is that you are hitting on her. Women find men who hit on them from the outset very unattractive. Start off by talking about something external such as the weather or the place you are at. You might even want to accidentally "bump" into her. Whatever you do, make it subtle and inoffensive.

Your next step for picking up women is to keep things short and sweet. Once you establish a connection with her, quickly act as if you have something else to do. Never give your entire self to her, as this is one of the few ways to keep her interested in you. If you express your undying love for her from the very beginning, your relationship will end quicker than it started because there will be nowhere else to go.

So, basically, all you have to do is play it smooth. Think highly of yourself and go after the women whom you don't think you can get. Before you know it, you'll have women coming on to you because they'll know that there is just something about you that women like.

After a bit of effort, you'll see that picking up women isn't difficult at all.