Tuesday, March 27, 2012

Men's Guide To Sex On: The Benefits of Online Dating

  The online dating industry has grown considerably in the past few years. Not long ago, matchmaking companies, personal ads, and other companies were responsible for introducing singles who were looking to start up new relationships. Nowadays, especially with the fast growing rate of technology, online dating has become the premier way for singles to introduce themselves to others, and enter the new dating world. Even better, the newest online dating companies do the work of matchmaking companies and public personal ads all at once.
   Remember back a few years ago, when busy, professional singles had difficult time meeting new potential dates. There were few options: set ups, singles bars, personal ads, professional matchmaking services, and even video dating services. The problem with many of these were that they were largely ineffective, restrictive, unpopular, and carried negative stigmas with them. With the introduction of online dating sites, however, these dating services began to expand in popularity and their capabilities. Nowadays, there are endless features available to online dating members, who can choose a service that best suits their needs. With these features, these online dating services can fulfill all the same duties as the past modes of dating combined. Features like compatibility matching is popular amongst many online dating websites, and plays the same roles as traditional matchmaking services. Personal ads are replaced with online dating profiles, and video greetings have been upgraded to online dating videos and photo albums. The need for singles bars has diminished, since members of online dating sites can go to one website to find singles in their area, and don't have to go out to seedy bars to do so. As more and more people sign up for online dating services, and find success with them, the popularity of online dating increases exponentially. Slowly, the stigma of online dating is decreasing, and its becoming a more viable option for many singles out there. As a result, what we are witnessing now is an explosion in the online dating industry, and the newest, most successful way for singles to come together.

By: Tyson

Tuesday, March 20, 2012

Men's Guide To Sex On:Discover How to Flirt with Women

Why learn to flirt and learn some flirting skills? I love flirting as I like to use these skills to show appreciation of the opposite sex. Most women love a little flirting behavior. Most men do not realize that flirting doesn't have to lead onto dating or asking a women out. Sometimes that does happen but I feel it should not be a goal at all. If you keep it in the back of your mind that flirting is all about appreciation then it is hard to go wrong. If you flirt from neediness and feeling a lack of a relationship then it will go badly wrong. Women are expert at picking up a needy man and it is not attractive at all.

It takes a confident man that is emotionally happy inside to really flirt well. One benefit of learning to flirt is that it trains you to change your emotional state if you are feeling down in some way. You have to feel good inside to flirt. The best flirters can instantly transform their emotions to feel good inside. When you flirt, this feeling of confidence and happiness comes out and is transferred to the receiver.

One of the best ways to see flirting body language is to look at television advertising. You will see many attractive women use some flirting signals in the ads. Women's confidence can be based around their hair and they use it for its flirting power. When you see her moving her finger through her hair, brushing bask or throwing it back this is a flirting signal.

When a woman smiles at you this is a good sign of friendliness and that she is enjoying your company. A good signal of sexual interest is when the women touches you for some reason.

It is important for men to learn to look for the subtle flirting signals that women use. Most men are not skilled at observing the subtle flirting signals and need to be trained to really look for these. Parties are a great place to observe the flirting signals. Look for how a women is standing or siting in relation to a man. Is her body language open or closed? How close is she sitting to the man in question?

One body language flirting signal is when the woman mirrors your body language. Most women tend to do this subconsciously when they like a man. When you lean in towards her, she leans in towards you too. When you rest your elbows on the table, she does the same. Duplicating your body language is a way a woman shows that she's "in-tune" with you.

Some dating experts suggest that you use this mirroring behavior back to the women. If she talks fast, talk fast. If she is talking softly, talk softly. This should enable some sort of emotional connection to develop.

Also it is very important to look for a group of 4 or more flirting signals to be really sure that the women is interested in you. No one likes to be rejected, so really look for more than one flirting signal.

One approach line is to look for a less obvious body language of a women and then go and ask her what this signal means. This is a great way of stating a conversation with an attractive women. It shows you are in the here and how and that you are tuned into body language signals.

Have fun learning to observe women's body language and enjoy your flirting success.

By: mauricetate

Tuesday, March 13, 2012

Men's Guide To Sex On: The 5 Sexual Foreplay Steps For Becoming The Best She's Ever Had

Want to know the secret to having great sex?

Well, I bet you do!

What most guys don't know is a great sex session starts way before you even step into the bedroom. Actually sexual tension should start the moment you see a woman.

Now the best way to accomplish this is done through the act of foreplay.

To sexual master, you have to be great at foreplay. Once you learn the proper techniques for foreplay, you'll have women practically begging for sex.

In the next few paragraphs, I'm going to reveal my personally 5 step system for engaging women in sexual foreplay.

Hope you're prepared...

Step #1- Turn her on out in public

Like I said at the start of this article, foreplay starts the moment you see a woman. Even it's HOURS before want to have sex you should start working to turn her on.

Here's how to do it...

When you're with her in public,try  doing little things which will turn her on and put her in the mindset for the sex that'll happen later.

You want her to make her feel attractive and know how beautiful you find her. Try demonstrating these feelings by kissing her or touching her in a provocative manner.

If you're with her at a club or bar, dance with her in suggestive manner and touch her in a seductive manner.

Just remember that foreplay starts long before sex, so do your best to turn her on when you're out in public.

Step #2- Set the right mood

Once you move things back to your home or apartment, you should work towards creating the right kind of atmosphere. What you want to do is create an ambiance which is conducive to seduction.

This means lighting some candles, turning down the lights and playing soothing music. By doing this, you're creating an encounter which will mentally and physically prepare her for sex.

Step #3- Massage in a sensual manner

The best way to start the process of foreplay is to give her a sensual massage. In fact, I would consider this technique to be the best way to prepare a woman for sex.

For best results, try using special massage oils which carry pleasant fragrances and warms the skin. Apply it to her skin and get started!

Initiate the massage her by rubbing her shoulders and neck. Then when you've warmed her up, move to her more intimate areas like her lower back, chest, lower upper thighs.

Massages are a great technique for putting women in the mindset for having sex. As a result, it's important to how the right way to give them. If you're unsure of how to give a proper massage try reading up on this technique and practice till you can become perfect at giving them.

Step #4- Kiss her the right way

As the massage culminates, start kissing her in a seductive manner.

Try kissing her slowly at first then observer her reaction. Once she becomes more passionate, start building up the intensity of your kissing.

One great trick for kissing is to explore the other areas of her body like neck, upper chest and ears. Women are really sensitive creatures, so you can do a lot to turn her on simply by knowing how to kiss.

Step #5- Become more intimate

Eventually your foreplay and kissing will develop into sex.

In order to properly make this transition you should take your time and not try to rush things.

Try slowly undressing one other and exploring her body. One advanced technique is to start with oral sex to get things really going.

What you want to focus on in this last step is to delay the act of sex by teasing her. You want her to practically beg for sex! Then once you start she'll go crazy with passion.

Foreplay is the key ingredient to a great sex session. If you can master this 5 step system, you'll become a master in the bedroom!

By: Scott J

Tuesday, March 6, 2012

Men's Guide To Sex On :How to Pick Up a Stripper In Five Easy Steps

For many guys, picking up a stripper is the ultimate conquest!

By pulling this off, you'll have a great time and become the envy of your friends.

But a bit of warning...

Trying to pick up a stripper requires you to be on the top of your game. If you're confident enough and have a plan of action, you can make your fulfill your dreams of picking up a stripper.

In this article, I will give a few tips that'll help you with a stripper. Just remember picking up a stripper isn't that hard. Usually these types of women are insecure and love attention, so if you this system, you can easily pick them up.

Step #1- Fit an image

Typically strippers go for a certain personality in men who are edgy and live an exciting life. That's why you see a lot of strippers going for rock and roll singers.

Now I know you're probably an average guy so you might not have the "rocker" look. But you can increase your chances with a stripper by having the "right look". What you can do is go watch a few popular cover bands in your area and see how the lead singers dress. Then try to matching that image.

While it's not absolutely necessary to dress like a rock guy, you should try to create an image about yourself that will make yourself stand out from your average guy.

Step #2- Pick your right time to go

If you're serious about trying to pick up a stripper, you have to stand out from the crowd. One of the best ways to do this is to go during the right time.

Try to pick nights where business is slow and she has time to talk. This works because there will be less men vying for her affection.

Step #3- Bring a female friend

Strippers LOVE having other women around.

If you can bring an attractive female with you to the club, you'll definitely attract her attention.

Typcially strippers like to compete for men's attention. If your female friend is hot enough, you'll validate yourself by having her with you. By doing this, a stripper will want to work hard for your attention.

Step #4- Don't be like other guys

Your actions inside the club will dictate how a stripper will perceive you. A stripper will be attracted to you if you appear to not care about her affections.

This means sitting away from the main stage area where the girls are dancing, NOT tipping the dancers, tipping the bartender WELL, avoiding the standard "stripper services", and engaging other people in conversations.

The more you can do to enlist allies with the people around you (especially the bartender), the more you'll increase your value in her eyes.

Step #5- Be interesting

When you see a stripper you particularly like, engage her in a conversation. Your goal during this discussion is to be a mysterious person who is both charming and engaging.

By acting in a friendly but aloof manner, you'll become a prize to her. Basically since you're not kissing her butt, she'll wonder why you're not attracted to her. As a result, she'll start to work for your attention.

If you work your conversation well, you can easily get her number and set up an encounter outside the club. Then it's just a matter of using your attraction skills to build towards intimacy.

If you play your cards right and use the attraction building techniques I described in this article, you'll find it easy to pick up a stripper.


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