Mens Guide 2 Sex On: Seduced by a Cougar? You Are Not Alone - Cougar Seduction Uncovered!

If you hear people talking about being seduced by a cougar, and you are not completely following them, then you need to know that the term cougar is related not to the animal, but to older women who hook up with younger men. Of course you remember the infamous Mrs. Robinson and it is most likely that you had a crush on your teacher, during your school years.

Being seduced by a cougar is definitely not a new phenomenon. More and more men are getting involved today with older women, and in some cases the age difference could be more than 20 and 30 years. There are many examples from the show business that actually prove it. Demi Moore and Aston Kutcher, or Melanie Griffith and Antonio Banderas and Susan Sarandon with Tim Robbins are some of the most striking examples.

Men can easily learn the secrets of seduction by cougars. This sounds a little funny, but in some cases men are the ones who 'provoke' older women to seduce them and start an affair with them, rather than the opposite. Older women have the tendency to have the upper hand when it comes to their relationships and affairs and that is why its them who make the first move in charming a man.

Men who are seduced by cougars definitely know how to appreciate this kind of relationship. They are aware of the power of the mature charm and the sexual experience they can have at the side of such a woman. It is a really different kind of relationship, because mature women know what they want, how to ask for it and are absolutely not afraid or intimidated to show it in many several ways.

If you are seduced by an older woman, then just enjoy it. There is an air of sophistication and intelligence involved that you cannot find anywhere else.

By: Mark Taylor

Mens Guide 2 Sex On: The Top 10 Terms You Need to Know in the Seduction Community

"Science is organized knowledge. Wisdom is organized life."
-Immanuel Kant

It’s my mission to give you wisdom: attracting all the positive stuff, repelling all the negative stuff. There’s no sense wasting your time with information and emotions that don’t make you a superior man (example: the many, many pickup books that are an absolute waste of time). So I’m going to help you attract the information YOU need to know, to get the girls you want!

To do that, I’ll be sharing my favorite websites for quality information. Here you can learn all the things you should do…and all the things you shouldn’t!

The first website you need to know about is UrbanDictionary.com .

So much of the seduction community is centered around terms, initials, and euphemisms. There’s IOI, DHV, negging, cocky funny, inner wuss, ATC, frame control–you name it, there’s a term for it. Knowing these terms isn’t crucial, but the meaning of the terms themselves is very special knowledge. For example, you don’t necessarily need to know that ATC means Artificial Time Constraint, but understanding the concept of only spending a limited time around women before taking off, is invaluable. Urbandictionary.com is a great website for sorting out all the terms.

Enjoy, and remember: Knowledge is only as good as putting into action. Follow the lead of Kahlil Gibran:

"A little knowledge that acts is worth infinitely more than much knowledge that is idle."

Here’s just a sample of the informative (and often hilarious) terms found in this website:

UrbanDictionary.com Definition of…

Love
"Often confused with infatuation by adolescents, college students and even supposedly mature people. Love is not the often associated chemical reaction which has similar effects on the brain as cocaine, nor is it the inability to be without that person for a day."

-OMG! I’m sooo in love with Brad Pitt!!
-No you’re not. You just want his small wang. You don’t even know him!
-*Cries* No, I will marry him! I’m going to go home and fantasize about him! *Cries and runs away*

UrbanDictionary.com Definition of…

Kino
"The act of making flirtatious physical contact with a person of sexual interest. Generally considered to be a vital tool in one’s ‘Game Belt.’"
Hopefully I can get some action by using a little kino on the ladies tonight.

UrbanDictionary.com Definition of…

Oneitis
"Often confused with love, this is the feeling that a particular woman is actually special. This is just an illusion; she is the same as the other three or so billion." ‘Go **** ten other women’ is the most commonly prescribed treatment for this "disease" (hence the "itis"), as it tends to show quite quickly how very alike people are.

In other words, get over yourself and your obsession with that girl, because it’s just an illusion. And when you get rejected, don’t be depressed. Because there’s really not much to worry about."
Dude, you definitely have oneitis for that girl. You’ve been talking about her nonstop for the past week. Don’t you realize she’s nothing special, and that you are just being fooled? Snap out of it so you won’t be so depressed when she rejects you!
UrbanDictionary.com Definition of…

Neg
"A light insult wrapped in the package of a complement. Used by pick-up artists to gain and maintain the attention of women who possess uncommon beauty (9+). These women are immune to standard complements."

The classic neg
pua - "you have beautiful nails, are they real?"
(9+) -"not really"
pua - "Oh, I guess thats still cool"
pua - "that’s really cute, your nose wiggles when you speak"
(9+) -"no it doesn’t"
pua - "ha ha, there it goes again, sorry, its just really cute"
"I just kept tossing neg after neg at that 10 standing by the bar, and she loved it, she was giving me crazy kino"

UrbanDictionary.com Definition of…

DHV
"Noun: Demonstration of Higher Value
Verb: Demonstrate Higer Value
Presentation that will increase your value in the opinion of your audience."
I related a funny and cocky joke as a DHV.

UrbanDictionary.com Definition of…

AMOG
"Alpha Male Of the Group
A guy that everyone thinks is cool and is always the social center of the room."
Bob: Dude, why is everyone crowding arounding that bag of douche?
Me: Cause he’s a total AMOG

UrbanDictionary.com Definition of…

Beta Male
"An unremarkable, careful man who avoids risk and confrontation. Beta males lack the physical presence, charisma and confidence of the Alpha male."
Pete knew he was losing the girl he’d just met at the bar to the guy who bought her a drink, but he was too much of a beta male to do anything about it.

UrbanDictionary.com Definition of…

Sarging
"Verb; to Sarge.
The act of engaging conversational rapport with a complete stranger.
Though tied to the seduction community as the official name for being "on the hunt," the term also applies in business and interpersonal relations, as the act of appearing as a socially versatile and competent person.
Credit to Ross Jeffries, who claims to have named the act after his cat."

in seduction:
"My wingman and I went sarging last night at club X."
other:
"The goal in business is to sarge your coworkers as soon as you start working there. It’s a quick way to appear competent!"

UrbanDictionary.com Definition of…

mPUA
"Master Pick Up Artist.
Used to refer to one who has attained legendary status within the ‘Pick Up Artist’ community. Originally used to refer solely to Neil Strauss, aka Style. Referenced in Strauss’s book ‘The Game’."
Man Style kept eight girls on the go, he truly is a mPUA.

And now, my personal favorite definition…

Friendship
"A method of castrating men without using sharp objects."
From David DeAngelo’s article:
She looked at him with compassion in her eyes and said "Thank you… I really mean that… but I don’t want to mess up our friendship… you’re too important to me…"

Now that’s something you definitely want to avoid! And if you want to make sure the words "just friends" never enter your eardrums again, visit the place that turns men around the world from "just friends" to "seduction masters":

By: James Brito

Mens Guide 2 Sex On: Subliminal Seduction – Bend Them To Your Will

In the game of love, all of us are not born equal and some might have much better luck than the rest. The thing about this is that there are many tools to be played in the game of seduction – they can come in the form of tangible things like good looks, or money, or a certain feature that appeals to other people.

There are other, more intangible things like status, or charm, or charisma, or personality and even things like love might come into the picture once in a while. What you need to understand is that for those of us who do not have an overpowering physical portfolio in the game of love, we have to rely on the biggest and most powerful muscle in the human body and that is of course the human brain. We need to be able to master the art of subliminal seduction and that is really being able to train the mind to bring out the James Bond and the Don Juan in each and every one of us. This article is more for the male part of the population, because you have to admit that it is the male population that often struggles in the dating game, while the women will have the freedom of choice and not being alone.

So men, sit up and pay attention and be enthralled at the power of subliminal seduction and what it can do for you. Your mind is your worst enemy and a no confidence approach is perhaps the biggest bomb that you can drop on yourself. If you are going into a situation with a very negative mindset, you are most sure to not get anywhere. The mindset affects each and every element of yourself, so you need to be able to conquer your mind and be Napoleonic about things when looking at a girl and wanting to approach her.

You need to be in a positive mind frame and this is all about subliminal seduction. What does subliminal mean? It means that something is not perceived but felt. One thing you need to do is to make your presence felt, which means walking up next to her or if you are at a bar, walk past her and maybe glance at her once. Make sure that she knows you know she knows – if you understand that and then do your own thing. You cannot rush. Rushing denotes desperation and desperation means you will be at home later that night with a box of tissues.

Let things ease, and let her get comfortable with your presence. The last thing she wants is a shock. Then try and approach her. Subliminal seduction is about using body language, confidence and bringing out the side of you that you have in your mind. You need to master the techniques of reading her body language as well. With these subliminal seduction techniques, you will be having dates and then some in no time at all.

By: Greg Frost

Mens Guide 2 Sex On: How To Meet A Woman When She's With Her Friends

WOMEN OF BEAUTY ARE NEVER ALONE!!!!!

You heard me right. Pretty girls have a very high social status. They are almost always surrounded by people, be they girlfriends, boyfriends, male "nice guy" friends, brothers, sisters, parents - whatever! They will always be in groups of people.

It is very rare to see beautiful women alone. And when they are alone, they're usually waiting for someone!

The common term I refer to people who like to hang around with beautiful women is: OBSTACLES.

If you imagine you're on a race track, and at the end of the track is this girl you want to meet, all the rocks, hurdles, holes, and booby traps between you and her are OBSTACLES that can ruin your chances of meeting her.

But there is a way to navigate that minefield and avoid all these obstacles! That way is called:

GROUP THEORY.

Group theory is a system by which you actually address the girl's friends instead of trying to ignore them. Through group theory, you win over the girls peer group and turn them into YOUR support group.

Here's how it works...

The girl you want to meet is always with her friend, right? And you're worried that you can't approach the girl you like because the friend will interfere in some way.

So what you do is forget about the girl you like, and approach her friend first!

That's right...

YOU FORGET ABOUT THE GIRL YOU LIKE AND APPROACH HER FRIEND FIRST!

Now, this doesn't mean you're going to try and pick-up the obstacle instead of the girl you really like. It just means you're going to overcome that obstacle before you reach for your prize!

Remember: You must disarm a land mine before you step on it!

You do this by acting disinterested in the girl you're really interested in, and focus on winning over the girl you don't really care for!

Then, once you've won over the obstacle, you ask if you can "borrow" her friend for a minute because you've been neglecting her. Once her friend gives you approval to talk to her alone, guess what? You've just gotten her STAMP of approval!

This means that the girl you like has no reason NOT to talk to you!

Then, you pull her off to the side, and work your magic one-on-one.

I talk more about group theory and various other tactics on meeting women in my book The Art Of Approaching: How To Meet Any Woman, Any Time, Anywhere You May Be! In it, I go in-depth on how to meet women and overcome any and all obstacles that may be in your path.

If you want to have the skills to meet beautiful women no matter what, click below now:

http://www.artofapproaching.com

Don't wait. If you never get control over this aspect of your life, you will be DOOMED to a life of quiet desperation, seeing opportunity after opportunity with women you like pass you by!

Wishing you success with women,

By: Joseph Matthews

Men's Guide 2 Sex On: Build Your Confidence And Get More Dates!

      Stretch yourself into areas of discomfort to raise your self esteem by taking the time to create short conversations with strangers of all ages, (men and women). The most opportune times will be when you gain eye contact, but the best breakthroughs and wins will be when you have to work at getting someone’s attention. You can use statements such as “What a beautiful dog?” (and continue to chat a bit about the dog). “Great hat!” or “Do you know how I get to Smith Street? I love the color of your hair”. You may be next to an old man in a shop. Stop and chat to him for a minute to make him feel good, or an old lady may be having difficulty reading a label in the supermarket and you can help her.

        Keep taking risks to build your confidence, but never expect anything in return. Do it from the heart to make others feel good, and do it to build your confidence. You have greatness within you, and I urge you to keep doing it until it feels natural and it comes easily to you. Make this exercise part of your everyday life for the rest of your life and you will find it will give you a lot of happiness and peace within, because you will make a difference to other people’s lives as well as your own. And, as you know, the extra bonus will be that it will give you a lot more confidence with the opposite sex, and, on the odd rare occasion an interesting potential partner may hang around and emit very positive body language. It is at these times you can ask for their business card, or you can give them yours to catch up again. If you haven't got business cards, buy some blank cards from the news agency and write your details on them. Be prepared at all times and always carry them with you.

      As part of this stretching process I also urge men to take risks and to be chivalrous to women of all ages, as this will help to build confidence with women. What is chivalry exactly? Chivalry is helping a woman who is struggling, or it is lending a helping hand when you see the need. A woman may have a heavy suitcase that she is having difficulty carrying, and you may suggest you carry it part of the way for her. Or, a lady may need a hand to lift a pram up some stairs, or her car may have broken down, and you can stop to help in some way, even if it’s just asking if she is okay. You can open doors for ladies - doors to restaurants, office doors, and shop doors. It is important however to be chivalrous from the goodness of your heart, and do it with no strings attached or hidden agendas. Interestingly though, you will find when you give freely and easily, and you detach from the outcome, that’s when someone special may just appear. There is a saying that the best love comes when we least expect it.

      With these stretching exercises it is important to realize that some people may react negatively, but don’t worry about them, just move on. Work with the people who give you some sort of positive response. Try to get your strike rate for positive responses up to about 70 or 80%. Remember, a positive response may just be an acknowledgment or a smile, nothing more! If you keep getting negative responses it will be because you are emitting negative insecure signals via your body language and your energy field (our energy field contains our dominant thoughts which other people pick up on).

“Feel the fear and do it anyway.”- Susan Jeffers

    To get your strike rate higher you will need to constantly reprogram your negative thoughts to positive thoughts. Say your chosen affirmation (or positive statements) 50 times a day and write them 10 times a day for 3 weeks and watch the changes that will occur. For example, you may need to reprogram yourself with a positive statement such as, “People of all ages are attracted to my friendly energy”. When writing your statements it is important the statements you choose feels right for you on a deep level or they won’t work.

      Personal development is not a quick fix, it takes time and effort and it has to be ongoing throughout our life. To be fit we need to exercise at least 4 times a week, and to be emotionally and spiritually strong the same applies. We need to work on ourselves on an inner level on a daily basis. Unfortunately, most people are too lazy to do the work. They prefer to take the easy option and then they wonder why they are over weight, unfit, or their relationships aren’t the way they want them to be.

    The road less traveled leads to an amazing life. I constantly see the proof in my own life of the miracles that occur when we are on this track, as these things really work, but only when we do the work. As the saying goes “God helps those who help themselves”.

We all deserve a loving caring partner, but first of all we must become (and continue to be) the lover we are looking for.

By:Jane Roder

Mens Guide 2 Sex On: How to Impress Girls

Are you interested in knowing more about how to pick up girls and how to be successful with them? Are you someone who prefers a 1 night stand with girls? If

you are a womanizer or want to become one then there are some ebook pua techniques that would surely make you one of the best pick up artists.

There are many ebook pua techniques for picking up girls. There are men who like many partners and like to have sexual relationship with them for short

period of time. They are fond of a 1 night stand. Such men are always interested to meet a girl in order to have sex with her.

You should never give a woman your contact number and expect her to call you. You should be the one to lead the way. It is you who should take her contact

number to give her a call. When taking her number, its best to give her a missed call right out there. You can also put your phone number in her mobile—this

is the way you can avoid her not answering a call from an unknown number.

If, you are a non-pua then pua training can make a great difference to your lifestyle. Successful pua’s always thinks positive. The first and foremost

differentiating factor between champions and the masses in any profession including that of the pick up artist is the mind. They always have a positive mind

that they can do whatever they want to achieve in life. They are mentally tuned to be the winners and so it becomes much easier affair for them to pick up a

girl and have 1 night stand with her.

Pick up artist must have a high internal focus of control. In the pick-up game an individual who has high internal focus of control believe that events

primarily result from their own actions and behavior. One thing you must always consider is your group of friends---they should always have positive thinking

and be open minded. The techniques pua uses while picking up woman have always acted as a means to have sex with woman.

There are few reasons why you should always dress smartly in order to pick up girls and become successful with them. There is a saying that first impression

is the last impression. So, if you can impress girls with your smart attire then it might create wonders for you.

Women always want financial security. So, if you dress smartly, look like you have wealth with your smart shoes, trousers, confident posture, tie, and

briefcase---then you will surely tick every woman’s most important box: the ability to provide, aka wealth.

By: Sam Santana

Men's Guide 2 Sex On: How To Pick Up Girls At A Bar: The Do’s

If you’ve read “How To Pick Up Girls At A Bar: The Don’ts,” you have learned what seduction slip-ups you need to avoid if you’re going to become a master of meeting women on the nightlife circuit.

Now it’s time for the do’s:

• Do make eye contact before approaching. This is one of the easiest ways to determine if a woman is interested in you. If she looks into your eyes – especially if she holds your gaze for a longer-than-average period of time – she is clearly inviting you to approach.

• Do display your sense of humor. Making a girl laugh is important in any seduction situation, but it’s twice as important when you’re meeting in a bar or club. Funny openers and routines are much more powerful at night, and they’re a great way to distinguish yourself from the hoards of other men who have just asked to buy her a drink or asked her what she likes to do for fun.

• Do pay attention to the numbers. It might sound a bit crass, but when it comes to learning how to pick up girls at a bar, quantity counts. Unless you develop a really special connection with one girl, approach as many women as possible. Odds are stacked against you in nightlife settings, so the more women you approach, the more women you’ll close.

• Do engage her physically. Though touching is a vital aspect of seduction in any location, women are much more receptive to being touched in bars and clubs. Kino and sexual tension can be escalated much more quickly in these venues.

• Do kiss her. Unless you’ve spent all night with a woman and built deep rapport with her, it’s almost always to your advantage to go for the kiss rather than taking her number. When the next day rolls around, women rarely answer or return phone calls from men they meet at bars.

And don’t forget the final rule of learning how to pick up girls at a bar: we call this “the game” for a reason! If you’re not having fun, you’re doing something wrong!