Men's Guide To Sex On: Tip For Dating Older Women

    This post is about getting older women. Older women are a great option for anything romantic. They are much more honest, and less insecure, so they are much better company. Especially when they are dealing with men younger than them. Now getting their attention and keeping it are two completely different tasks. So this post is about giving a few pointers in overcoming a few of the problems that may arise in meeting, capturing, and keeping their affections.

   The first tip is understand the situation. Older women rarely take younger men seriously for anything long term. So if you get her very quickly there is a good chance she doesn't have plans on keeping you very long. It maybe a case of even only wanting you for the night. Just so you know, if things move very smoothly for you, it's because she wants them to. They are a lot more experienced than you in life and that includes matters of romance. So she has seen and played most of the games that you try and run at her. Therefore they wont work unless she wants them to. Also don't assume older women are these horn dogs that are just after sex. The truth of matter is, woman in general are bigger perverts than men. Older woman are just more secure in themselves to understand that their sex life and self respect are not mutually exclusive. As a result sexual activity has more to do with what she thinks of him and less about what the potential partner thinks about her. Simply put girls get used women don't. Either they used each other or she used him.
 

 
  The second tip is be a gentleman. All those gentlemanly things that got you in the too nice category before with younger women are the keys to the front door with the older women. For them it shows that you know how to treat a woman. Not to mention they are usually done with that cocky young bad boy thing they liked in their twenties. Granted they never outgrow him, ( it's like us and huge boobs ) but they no longer seek or chase him. They have been there and done that. Now they seek a man that show appreciation for their time and attention. Not that games are behind her, it's more of her game is past you. When it comes to men her own age, they're getting much game. A younger man that she takes but so seriously and is probably just a fling at best in her eyes, just isn't worth the effort to play games. So your lack of games just comes off as maturity.

   Which brings me to the third tip. Be mature for your age. Don't be that loud obnoxious cocky guy that works with younger women. Be calm, polite, and well mannered. Dress nice with slacks and shoes. You don't want to keep doing and saying things that remind her of your age difference. She may not be as self conscious as younger women but she is still a little self conscious about the situation. She's asking herself, “what am I doing with this guy.” What will my friends and family think? Will people look at me as a cougar? Am I that desperate or lonely? You must find some common ground to show there I much more to the relationship than attraction. So unless she is really into younger guys or you are only after just sex then you want to appear to be as mature as possible.

  As for my last tip, this is the rule for all women. Be fun and spontaneous. Show the advantages of being with a younger man and demonstrate lots of energy and vigor. If you can remind her of her younger days even better. She will already be flattered that she is still able to get the attention of a man that much is younger than her but you can make her feel that much better by pouring on the charm. Tell her how beautiful she is. How you like what she's wearing and her style. Compliment her on anything and everything you notice. Don't spread it so thick that it's unbelievable but enough that it would be considered often. Let her take control of the conversation. You want to make her feel so much better about herself that she doesn't care about the age difference.

    Now those are just a few pointers for trying to get an older woman. So if there is a particular mature woman that has your attention, I recommend going out and giving a few of these suggestions a try. What's the worst that can happen? With that I end this post.

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