Picking your target is probably the most important part, because going after hot instead of going after ready is one of the biggest mistakes. If your looking for a date I do recommend the hot girl but if want to get laid tonight you need the ready. The only time focusing on the hot girl for a one night stand is when there is a group of them. She will have the most confidence to fuck you and not care if you call. The less attractive one doesn’t get a lot of male attention and will try and get a date out of the situation. Other than that hot girls are good targets only when the following applies. What most men don’t realize that women go out looking to get laid almost as much as men do, the problem for them is, they are just a little more particular about it. For them, six and a half just isn’t good enough. They want hot and interesting or even better smooth. The smooth guy for them is the one who does this kind of thing all the time and is probably good in bed just out of practice. Now picking exactly who is ready and looking for the one night stand that you’re looking for can be tricky, because lets face it, women don’t advertise that they are looking to get some.
The girls on vacation are a good target. One of the main reason why women aren’t more promiscuous is because they are worried about their reputation. They don’t want to be labeled a slut, but while on vacation it is like being Vegas. What happens there stays there. So in other words you don’t count. You would be a freebie that she doesn’t have to add to her number. While searching for women on vacation, foreign women would be the best target and for several different reasons. First of all the accents, we find them sexy. Well so do the women. If English isn’t her first language she will be proud of herself that she is able to hold a conversation with you, so she doesn’t mind talking to you. Then there is the culture factor. No matter what country they are from their attitude about casual sex is probably different than yours and either way it benefits you. Either their culture is more constricting about sex in which case they want to take advantage of the freedom or their culture is a little more lax and it’s time to take advantage of an opportunity. Also foreign women usually like our approach. We are usually aggressive without being disrespectful. In other countries, the aggressive men are usually quite rude. Aggressiveness is always sexy because it suggests confidence. So from their perspective they’re not sure on how to handle the situation. On the one hand they like our approach and think we’re cute and interesting but on the other hand they’re not quite ready to jump in bed with us. To sum it up for some of them it is probably better to jump in bed with him than to miss out on sleeping with him all together.
Getting to a bar early and targeting women that come in for happy hour is also good. There are a lot of women that had a long day and just want to feel better. Maybe they got fired, had a long meeting or just had a bad week. In any case they just want a drink and to relax. If you get them talking, all you need is two hours and a few drinks and it’s on. Another reason they are good targets is because their guard is down. They figure the guy in the bar is less interested in hooking up than the guy hitting on them at 2:30 in the morning. Also a lot of these women are girls who are very career oriented. So they don’t have time for a relationship. The one night stand is for the most part their only option when it comes to intimacy. The best part is, these ladies are easy to spot. Just look for the girl by herself in a bar at 6:30 in the afternoon. Also there is usually a lot less competition. No where near as many guys and the few that are there are probably not that desirable, making her options limited. So if you get to her first with some decent conversation it shouldn’t be that hard to seal the deal. The whole process shouldn't take that much time as well. If your timing is perfect and your approach is good, you can be in at six, at her place by nine, and back home in your bed by eleven to get a good nights sleep.
Girls that just broke up with their boyfriends are fantastic targets. They are very emotional and easy to pick up. All you have to do is listen to their sob story. Not only that, you can do no wrong. Everything you do is perfect. Either it’s something her ex never did and that’s good because it’s not him or her ex boyfriend use to do that and it reminds her of him. Usually they like hooking up with other guys just to prove to themselves that the breakup wasn’t their fault. That they are still desirable and their ex is just a loser. Also their friends are less likely to get in your way. They know she is down and if you can help her forget about her ex then as far as they’re concerned you deserve a free crack at her, and she really needs it. It all boils down to you making her feel better. One thing everyone takes for granted in a relationship is sex. It’s something you can count on getting at least once a week if not more, but when you’re single then it’s not uncommon to go a few months. In other words, you do realize what you got until it’s gone and that goes double for sex. Granted women can hold out longer than men can but if you catch a girl that has gotten use to twice a week and all of a sudden it’s been three weeks it increases your chances because she hasn’t gotten back into single mode yet.
This next target is going to sound a little crazy but believe me when I say they are prime targets, married women. The longer they’ve been married the better. They have had the same thing for so long that they are so longing for something different. Also a lot of time husbands don’t show them attention they use to or don’t put in the time to make them feel desirable. They aren’t looking to end their marriage as much as they are just board with what they got. So a romp with a stranger they will never see again can be appealing. All they need is to believe they won’t get caught. I’m not saying that all married women are looking to cheat as much as I’m saying it is either going to be the hardest sex you ever got or the easiest sex you ever got. Now I said the longer the better but a newlywed is a pretty good target as well. Between the six month period and the year and a half period is the time to strike, just when the realization that she is married kicks in. Statistics say the first year of marriage is the hardest. Now I use the term married loosely. To be more accurate I mean women in long term relationships. Engaged, long term boyfriend etc. Engaged may even be better. There are the prewedding jitters that kick in or they’re worried about making a mistake. Sometime they know there about to marry the wrong guy and just don’t know how to call it off. In any event it’s the change in the relationship that triggers the opportunity. There is a difference between boyfriend and fiance. A fresh engagement not so much but one that’s been on for a few months and it has hit her that it’s really on, there is your target. To take it a step further the longer she’s been engaged the better your chances. If they’ve been engaged more than a year and there is no date set, if she thinks your hot then it is almost guaranteed. This means one of two things, she has push to set a date and he comes up with reasons not to or she won’t come up with one because she isn’t sure about him. Either way there is a problem and no ones talking about it. Pretty much the same logic with long term relationships, four years and no engagement or proposals then either he’s proposed and she isn’t sure about him or he hasn’t and she’s insecure on why not and getting tired of waiting.
Last but not least, older women are awesome targets. They have lived a little and to be honest they just don’t care anymore. For them the random hook up is about them. They decided they want it and they’re going to get it. They aren’t going to hint or play a game, they‘re just going to get to the point. It’s make sure you're into it so they know they’re not going to get rejected and then it’s on. For them the dating pool has gotten a lot smaller and the periods between sexual encounter are few and far between so lets not waist time. Simply put, as far as they’re concerned you’re the one being used. I just recommend you being good, because they have little patience for bad lovers. Did I mention that they’ve gathered about twenty years of sexual experience and can probably give it to you so hard that you end up with whiplash. If you find an older woman at the bar pounce immediately. The good thing is if she isn’t interested she’ll let you know that to.
With that being said, we have reached the conclusion of this portion of this exercise and I hope you have gotten some valuable information. It is our hope that you use this valuable information a take full advantage of it. What you have read here combine with what you have already read on this site will help you in your quests to achieve your goals in the intimacy area of your life.
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