Men's Guide 2 Sex On: Dating Shy Girls

 

    A woman can be shy for any number of reasons. Maybe she was teased in school growing up. She could have had a very bad past experience, or maybe she isn't that shy of a person but get shy around guys and intimate encounters. In any event if you want her, her shyness can and will be a problem if you don't get her to open up. The good news is her shyness is a dead giveaway on how she feels about you. If she is shy around you but still hangs out with you, then she definitely likes you. When she finally opens up to you and you have made what you're intentions clear, then you know you have the green light to move forward. Which we all know is the biggest problem when it comes to women ( reading them ).

     Women are very self conscious as a whole but shy women, even more so. Inside they are asking themselves why me. If she likes you then she is saying to herself “he probably doesn't and never will like me.” More to the point, they just fear that they are making a fool of themselves. If you can reassure them that you like them and that you are the biggest clown of the two, she will relax and open up. The whole situation may seem like shy girls are difficult but to be honest, they are usually quite an easy score once you get them past their shyness.

      The key to shy women is pressure. Let them understand that there is no pressure to do anything that they are not comfortable with. She will eventually warm up to you and then put pressure on herself to see that things move forward. If you put too much pressure on her early she will run or shut down and avoid you just to get out of the situation. So here are a few tips to help you capture a very easy and worth while target for whatever your desires maybe. The one night stand is going to be harder than a date but that's the case with most women.


      First tip is to take control of the situation and let her know that you like her. Compliment her often. Let her know you like the way she smells or her hair ( Stay away from looks, eyes, and body ). Talk about how much you like her style. Basically reassure her that you're into her. Not too much though, otherwise she won't believe you. Their confidence isn't high enough to believe you totally. They will think you're saying whatever to get into her pants. The second tip is alcohol. Get her drinking. It isn't called liquid courage for nothing. Thirdly ask her what her concerns are. Unlike most women, they wont mind and probably will answer and be honest about it. Then address the problem to reassure her. Also it will show you plan on being patient with her to take away some of the pressure. When asking questions, try asking things that require more than one word answers. Ask things like why did she choose that profession. My fourth tip is to talk about and do things that she likes or knows. In other words, keep her in her type of environment. It will help her to relax and open up around you. The last tip is to make her laugh. If you can get her laughing she will forget how insecure she is. Now those are just a few tips on what you should do.

      Well now that you know what to do to capture her, there are few things I should mention that you want to try and avoid. The first thing is not to keep mentioning how shy she is or pointing out anything about her insecurities. Shy girls already know that they are shy, so it will only make her even more insecure about it if you keep bringing it up. The second tip is to avoid places where she might run into her friends and people she knows. That way she wont feel self conscious about what her friends might think. That tip is for everything, asking her out, going for a kiss or maybe even approaching her in the first place. Anywhere that will help her keep you on her mind and everything else off her mind. Depending on the situation you made need to get her on a date to make any serious moves. The next thing I want to mention not to do, is force anything. That means don't push her to talk about things that she doesn't want to talk about or do things she doesn't want to do. Don't harass her about how quiet she is or doesn't talk to much either. Another tip is stay away from public displays of affection. It will only tense her up. Finally don't give any inclination that it bothers you that she's shy, but it is equally important that you don't say you like the fact that she's shy.

     Now you know all you need to know to get a shy girl. I recommend shy women to all men, because it doesn't matter what type of guy you are, she is very obtainable. If you're the type of guy that doesn't embarrass easily and have no problem approaching women but have trouble sealing the deal, then I recommend the shy girl because women like strength in their men, especially in places where they lack it. So she will let it all loose once you get her to open up and be proud of herself for doing it. If you're the timid guy that is insecure when it comes to women, the shy girl will probably move at pace more comfortable for you. Not to mention, with her it's not as important to be the confident alpha male that most other women require. If you're the guy who always gets too nice, then this is the chick who will definitely appreciate you. Now with that being said go out and have some fun with a woman that will probably like the attention and you.
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By : Intimate Asking