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Six Don'ts Of Internet Dating
       In previous articles on Internet dating, I outlined what you should do when writing your personal ad, how to exchange e-mails with a woman who has replied to your ad, how to conduct an effective IM (Instant Messaging) conversation and what to do to land a first date.
In this article, I'm shifting gears. I'm going to tell you about the Six Don'ts of Internet dating.
These are things you should never do when it comes to picking up women online, regardless of how much coffee you drank.
1- When conversing through e-mail, don't write your life story
Nothing turns off a woman more than a man who can't shut up. If you don't believe me, the next time you're corresponding with a woman you've met online, write a one-page e-mail about what you like to do on weekends, and see what kind of response you get. Nine times out of 10, a woman won't even reply to you. She'll simply delete your e-mail and move on to the next guy. Why is that?
First, women usually perceive a long-winded man as needy. And most women want a challenge. Needy men aren't challenging. Second, quite frankly, women want to do all of the talking. And they want you to listen.
What to do: Keep all your e-mail replies short (i.e. no longer than three sentences). The first two sentences should be used for answering a question (or questions) she may have asked, and the last sentence should be reserved for asking her a question. Remember: Questions keep the 'dialogue' moving, and give her the sense that you are thoughtful and interested.
2- Don't initiate sexual talk
Many women think men have nothing but sex on brain. Though there is some truth to this statement, you'll get further in the game by not hinting at or talking about sex.
Besides, in this politically correct world, who wants to take the chance of offending women with sex talk, especially if you don't know them well?
What to do: Just don't do it. In fact, you'd be surprised by how many women will actually initiate a conversation about sex. When a woman initiates talk about sex, consider that a green light, though I suggest that your comments be very well thought out. Besides, if you're looking for aggressive sexual dialogue with a woman, there are plenty of 'adult' oriented personal sites that cater to that.
3- Don't lie
It's a known fact that a significant percentage of men and women lie about themselves, whether it's about marital status, income, education level or occupation, when it comes to creating an online profile of themselves.
I'm a true believer that the lies will catch up with you -- sooner rather than later. And if you find a woman who is really interested in you, and you've lied to her, it's just a matter of time before she finds out the truth.
What to do: If you think your income is too low, or if your occupation isn't exactly exciting, simply 'up-sell' other qualities about yourself. Focus on the good instead. Never lie to impress a woman. Ever.
4- Don't send too many e-mail or IM messages
Again, you don't want to appear needy.
One way to appear needy is by sending a woman three or four e-mail or IM messages a day.
Of course, if the e-mail or IM conversation is moving along at breakneck speed and is interesting and stimulating, then by all means, have a full-fledged dialogue with her. In other words, don't hold back. You may even try to close the deal right there and ask her out on a date.
But if you're in the early stages where you're still in the process of getting to know each other, then I suggest keeping your interactions to a minimum.
What to do: I know it's difficult, especially if the woman is hot, but you have to be disciplined. Limit yourself to two e-mails per day, and keep streaming IM conversations to no longer than 15 minutes. If the dialogue exceeds this time, then excuse yourself and end the conversation, saying that you have some things to take care of -- and don't go into detail about it.
By doing this, you'll remain mysterious, something that turns most women on.
5- Don't spread yourself too thin
One of the better problems to have with Internet dating is corresponding with too many women.
Yeah, I know exactly what you're thinking: What man doesn't want to be chased by dozens of beautiful women? But truth be told, having an effective personal ad that generates a lot of responses can backfire on you if you're not careful.
For instance, in the past month, I've received 56 responses to my personal ad. That's a ton of women to e-mail. In fact, it's too many. Way too many.
If you try to reply to every single woman who responds to your ad, you'll soon find yourself spending your days writing e-mail. More importantly, you'll start forgetting what you've said and to whom.
I can't tell you how many times I've been embarrassed because I asked a woman the same question four or five times.
What to do: Though I encourage you to be polite, you may find yourself physically unable to reply to every woman who has responded to your ad. In fact, I recommend that you don't reply to every woman who responds to your personal ad.
Instead, if you're getting dozens of responses each week, only reply to the women you wish to pursue further. Furthermore, if these leads don't work out for you, then you can always go back to the other women you didn't reply to originally.
6- Don't appear too eager to go on a date
Unless a woman immediately asks to meet you (and some will), a rule of thumb about asking a woman for a date is to wait at least a week after the initial contact before asking her out.
If you ask her out too soon, when she's not ready and comfortable, she'll disappear.
If you wait, one of the things that will go through her mind is, why isn't this guy asking me out?
When that happens, you'll instantly become more attractive to her.
What to do: Let her make the first move. If she's the kind of woman who wants to be pursued, she might be a high maintenance princess, and that's the last thing you want to deal with.
Play it safe, play it cool
Now, we're all a bunch of macho men, but you can never be too safe. The last thing you want is to be involved in a real-life fatal attraction.
So in addition to these six 'don'ts,' I also advise against handing out your telephone number or your address. Take your time to get to know the woman before revealing your personal information.
Now go score!


 Picking up Women


      The art of how to pick up women is really not hard; any way all you require to do is get a good hold under their shoulders and raise. I imagine even if it was this simple, most guys still wouldn't be capable to do it because of all the mental blocks they possess: "What if I raise her and she thinks I'm hideous? What if I raise her and then I don't understand where to take her? What if there's another guy who just raised her recently and he's a superior lifter?" 

  Now when you consider that most guys are frightened to death about speaking to a strange lady, you have a formula for trouble. Dread not, there is hope. It is conceivable to discover how to attract and pick up women even if you have at no time done it already. Sometimes it requires small adjustments to your nature, sometimes big ones. Despite, beginning from any talent level, you can go from "not being competent to talk to a women" to being extremely successful with women in a short span of time by following some key concepts. 

One of the superior places to initiate is to hang out alongside men whom are successful with women. By watching, osmosis and asking key questions, you can better your talent quite quickly. If you don't have the chance to hang out next to successful men, then the next best thing is to study books by men whom are extremely successful with women. They will allow you the idea, the techniques and open your eyes to things that previously seemed impossible. Allow me a blatant plug, but read "How To Pick Up Beautiful Women In Nightclubs or Any Other Place: Secrets Every Man Should Know "by John Eagan and it will change your existence. 

Belief 1 : When picking up a Women, you must be reserved from the outcome. 

If you care about what the Women thinks of you, you are destined to fail. Let's face it, there are going to be numerous girls that you are just not in agreement with. Many of them just won't live up to your expectations and you won't live up to many of theirs. You have to get on top of this and not care if you succeed or get rejected. If you care, then you will do everything you can NOT to screw up, and accordingly, this makes you screw up. 

Belief 2: Adult And Dating to score and pick up women, YOU are choosing her. 

When you talk to some person for the first time, you must realize that there's a reason that you are talking to them. If you're talking to a woman for the first time, it's probable that she already knows you're trying to pick her up. Innumerable guys have tried to pick her up already and many will in the future. This does not mean that she decides if she will permit your advance or not. When you go shopping for a home, you might walk into a Real Estate business, but does that mean that you will buy the house? No way! The one and only way you're going buy the house is if it's a good investment and the sales agent is good. The exact applies to dating. When you go out and you meet a woman, keep in mind that YOU won't take her home unless you like her. 

Belief 3: Be pleased, relish what you do and she will too. 

Numerous guys advance this as a horrifying knowledge when in truth, it should in fact be a pleasurable one. If your objective is to discover out what kind of individual this women is and then make her smile, then you're liable to maintain many good and enjoyable interactions. If you try to "win" by picking her up, you're destined for failure. Greatest of the time, the superb pick ups are when you aren't even trying. 


Picking Up Women In the Grocery Store

   “You know, it's dangerous for you to be here in the frozen food section. You could melt all this stuff.” --Steve Martin in “My Blue Heaven” 

Funny thing about today’s topic. The concept is one of the oldest, most overwrought stereotypes in the dating world. Yet, how many people (other than Vinnie) do you know who actually have met someone at the grocery store? Have you? 

Would you like to? 

As promised, today we’re going to talk all about how to turn the local supermarket into your dating playground…or at least potentially. 

And it’s easier than you think. 

No, this isn’t necessarily about “bumping carts” with someone “by accident”. Rest assured there are much better strategies in store than that (pun intended). So, then, let’s get on with it! 

1) Inline Flirting 

This is the simplest concept, yet completely overlooked by so many. Basically, if you want to meet someone, form your checkout plan with some strategery, will you? Simply get in line behind someone you want to meet, pick up the tabloid in front of you and make conversation about it. For some odd reason, this is like magic when performed by a guy. Women seem to be entranced by that sort of thing, and to have a guy actually start a conversation about it really is irresistible to a woman. And don’t completely rule out flirting with the one who is behind the register, either. One of life’s joys for me is when a woman at a cash register asks me for my credit card or (God help her) my phone number. Whichever it is, it’s “way too soon in the relationship for that” or “I don’t know you well enough”. Believe it or not, my fiancĂ©e Emily still deals with this sort of banter out of me regularly…and still giggles when it happens. 

2) Have You Tried This? 

Step One: Position yourself considering the same shelf full of items as someone you want to meet. Step Two: Find a particularly interesting product. Step Three: Ask, “Have you tried this?” Step four: Expect a one-word answer. Step Five: Respond by briefly describing some creative use you might have for it. Step Six: Continue conversation with intrigued new friend. Step Seven: Etc… 

3) Veggie Tales 

This is really a variation on the second bullet point above, but I want to make sure everyone understands how virtually foolproof it is to start a conversation. Hit the produce section. Find someone you want to meet. Ask either: 1) “What’s the best way to pick one of these?” or 2) “Do you have any secrets for cooking these?” People love being asked for expert advice. Men love doing so because, well, we’re men, and women will find it endearing that a guy is interested in cooking. Don’t act helpless here guys, just interested. 

4) Bean Stalk 

This one is my personal favorite, and the true “secret” of this article. At a grocery store you have a perfect scenario for meeting someone that is built in by design. Everyone goes up one aisle and down the other when they are there on serious business. If you notice someone you would like to meet is doing a week’s worth of shopping like you are, simply (and this is about as simple as it gets) start at the opposite end of the aisle as they are, but work the aisles in the same order. In doing so, you will pass this person every single time you go to the next aisle. Hopefully you get what I’m talking about here without me having to draw a diagram, because I’m lousy at that. Maybe you’ll completely ignore the person on the first aisle. On the second aisle, possibly some eye contact and a smile. On the third aisle (exactly), stop and say, “Look, I barely know you and you are already stalking me.” Another perfectly good option is to ask, “So are you going to follow me around all day or are you going to introduce yourself?” Be sure to laugh (or at least smile) after you say this so as to make it perfectly clear you are kidding. Either way, playing upon the fact that the other person is already interested in you is almost always effective. From there, make a friend. 

5) Timing 

I would plan my supermarket ventures in the early evening (after work) or on a Saturday in the late morning to early afternoon time frame. Consider the demographics involved and it’s easy to understand how the ratios of single people are going to be better then. This isn’t to say that it’s impossible to meet people during the day on Tuesday, but the odds aren’t quite as good. 

If you are a “night person”, try shopping at 2 am if you have a 24-hour supermarket. You might meet your soulmate. He or she is probably stocking shelves. 

Here’s a quick note regarding what not to do. Ever notice that you don’t seem to get the choice of “paper or plastic” anymore? Just because all the bags are “plastic” doesn’t mean YOU have to be. One of the major scenarios to avoid is trying to be too, um…”overly helpful”. Guys please don’t chase women around the parking lot offering to “load their groceries” or even to return their cart for them. You might as well pour the milk you just bought onto some toast and contemplate how that relates to this situation. 

That said, starting conversation at the supermarket really is incredibly easy. Once you try it, you’ll wonder what took you so long. All too often we limit ourselves by thinking that bars, clubs and other “designated” places are the only “appropriate” venues for meeting someone. The truth is you are more likely to meet a high quality human being and have a great conversation with him or her when you both are in your “natural habitat” and free of loud noises and obnoxious distractions (e.g. a hundred other people trying to “pick up” someone). 

An informal poll I’ve taken suggests that most single adults would truly enjoy being approached with interest at the grocery store or similar shopping situation. So, how about giving it a try this week? 

By all means, send me your “success stories”. 

Copyright 2006 X & Y Communications


Why Being a Jerk Sometimes Helps


It's the age old question every "nice guy" ends up asking himself at one time or another... 

"Why do jerks get the women, and me, the good guy, is stuck being alone?" 

Sometimes, it's easy to believe that Jerks have some type of magical power that allows them to sucker women into liking them and somehow have them hang around while they treat them like dirt. 

This happens SO MUCH, that some guys believe that they actually have to BECOME Jerks to get women attracted to them. 

But make no mistake about it - no body likes a jerk. Not even the women who date them! So if that's the case, why is it obvious that they get so many girls to go for them? 

Well, remember that Jerk's tend to go through lots of women quickly. Most girls will only put up with Jerk behavior for so long before they get sick of it. And those who stick around have such low self esteem as it is, that they've formed some type of strange attachment to the emotional abuse Jerks doll out. 

That said, there are a number of things Jerks do to attract women that make them effective seducers and pick up artists. And these are things that "nice guys" can do, and get the same results. 

Here are the top 5 things Jerks do to get women, and how you can do them too - WITHOUT having to become a prick... 

1. Jerk's are self-centered 

One of the big things a Jerk has going for him is that he really doesn't care about other people. In fact, his focus is almost entirely on his own pleasures, thoughts, and feelings. 

Because of this, when he sees something he wants, he goes after it! 

When your average "nice guy" sees a hot girl, he might be intimidated. He wants her to like him. He wants approval from her. In short - he cares about what she thinks! 

But in addition to that, most guys care about what other's think too! They worry about a girl rejecting them in front of other people, and what those people will think when they see it happen. 

Jerks do not have this problem. They could care less about what other people are thinking. The Jerk is only focused on getting what he wants. 

When you allow yourself to focus on your goals, and set aside fears of judgment from others, this gives you a great deal of focus, and as we all know, focus is KEY to achieving what we desire. 

2. Jerks aren't afraid to approach women 

The most important step in meeting a woman is actually walking up to her, and then TALKING to her. 

Most guys won't do this. They are shy, or intimidated by the whole process. Instead, they look creepy by hanging back and staring at her. 

A jerk, on the other hand, just doesn't care if she likes him or not. So no worries, they just do it, without hesitation. 

They're thinking about how hot it's going to be to make out with her. They're thinking about how much fun it will be to get her in bed. The LAST thing on their mind is "fear of rejection." 

To a Jerk, if a girl rejects him, there's something wrong with HER, not him. Nice guys will say "Oh, I'm too ugly, she doesn't like me." Jerks will say "That bitch is a total lesbian." 

Just the act of being able to approach a girl and start talking to her puts the Jerk at an advantage, because he's interacting with the girl, and the "nice guy" isn't. To the girl, the nice guy doesn't exist! 

That's why women typically have such low opinions of men, because it's always the Jerks who are approaching the women while the shy guys sit off in the corner! 

Jerks realize it's not the woman's job to approach the guy. If you want something, you have to go after it. 

So if the Nice Guys were to start walking up and talking to women, they might be surprised to find most women WELCOME their company and really want to meet a good fella to treat them right! 

3. Jerk's don't censor themselves 

Part of the reason Jerk's come off as fun, interesting, or exciting is because they aren't worried about offending anybody. They will talk about whatever, joke about whatever, and even broach "sensitive" topics of conversation without a blink of an eye. 

Too many "nice guys" hold back when they talk to a girl they like. They NEVER bring up sex. They don't even joke about it. Heck, they don't even display any sign they even LIKE the girl. 

Because of this, the Nice Guys become the Boring Guys. 

The Jerk will come along, make an off-color joke, tell the girl a racy story, and even MAKE FUN of the girl! 

He could care less if he offends somebody. To the Jerk, he's just doing what comes naturally to him. Attitude like this is like a breath of fresh air to many women, because they mistake it as "confidence." 

But the more they are around the Jerk, the more they realize it isn't confidence at all - its just narcissism, and a complete lack of caring about others. 

Nice guys can learn a lot from these jerks, though. By putting aside the people pleaser attitude, loosening up, and creating some attraction, they'll get much farther. After that, they can reveal their caring side to her. 

4. Jerks are honest about what they want. 

Jerks approach women without trying to downplay their desires. He flirts with her and tries to convince her to go home with him. 

The girl knows RIGHT AWAY what the Jerk wants, and after he's made it clear, it is up to her to decide if she wants to give it to him. 

If not, the Jerk moves on and finds another girl. If so, then the Jerk takes her by the hand and drags her off. 

This type of honesty is actually appreciated by women. In contrast, you have the nice guys who try and fly under the radar by being an asexual "friend." He hangs out, listens to the girl's problems, tries to help her when she needs it, and then all of a sudden, he springs the fact on her that he's deeply in love! 

And the girl FREAKS OUT. 

The reason for this is that the "nice guy," in trying to not get rejected quickly by misrepresenting his intentions, has basically built a relationship with the girl based on LIES. 

And because of that, the girl has already pegged him as a "friend." 

So when the guy wants to be "more than friends," the girl feels betrayed, because she's become accustomed to thinking of him in a certain way, and now he's demanding she look at him differently. 

(Not surprisingly, shortly after this happens, most girls even stop being "friends" with the guy!) 

Nice guys should make their intentions clear from the start. Flirt with a girl. Let her know you like her and want to date her! If she rejects you, move on until you find a girl who likes what you have to offer. 

That's what the Jerks do, and it works out great for them! 

5. Jerk's safeguard their self esteem. 

Nice guys often get rejected by a girl, and the end result is plummeting self esteem, a depression spiral, and they end up withdrawing for the night. 

Jerk's don't suffer from this problem. They safeguard their self-esteem viciously, and don't allow rejection to get them down. 

This is why Jerks are Jerks! Because they will completely IGNORE rejection, and even go so far as to put down and ridicule other people to make themselves feel more important than they are. 

This constant guarding of their self esteem allows them to keep pursuing their goals by not allowing them to fall into a funk of depression. 

And no matter how you cut it - a guy with high self esteem is always way more attractive to women than a depressed loser. 

For the average nice guy, it's important not to take rejection personally. If a girl isn't into you, it doesn't mean you're not attractive, or cool, or interesting - it just means that girl isn't right for you! 

So you keep looking for one that is, and you don't stop until you find her. 

Rejection can be a hard thing for anyone to deal with. But remember to keep a positive outlook. Instead of seeing it as "losing a girl," think of it like "I just eliminated a girl who'd have wasted my time if I pursued her." 

You don't need to ridicule or bad mouth others to feel good about yourself like Jerks do, but you should protect your self esteem as viciously as possible, because that will keep you going. 

Understand - picking up women is a numbers game. The more women you meet, the more likely it is you'll get one! Jerk's succeed due to their tenacity and ability to play the numbers. Nice guys go for one or two women a night while Jerks hit up 20-30. 

And it's these five traits that allow them to do that! 

You don't need to be a jerk, or even fully act like a jerk, to get women. You just need to dedicate yourself to going after what you want. 




     


     
First Date Advice
   Inwardly you gave yourself a high-five when she said yes to a first date. Now, as the hour approaches, you're feeling a little less elated and a lot more troubled. You don't know her yet - what are you going to talk to her about? Fear not, help is nigh. Here's some advice for first date talk which will have her begging for seconds. 

1) Know What Women Enjoy In A Man 

Firstly, women adore a man having a strong identity. So know what you're about: what dreams and goals do you have? What values do you subscribe to? What issues get you all fired up? When you are passionate about something, you are tapping into the second thing that women strongly respond to in a man - the capability to arouse her emotions. 

The best way to stimulate her emotions is by story-telling. This lets you be inventive and perhaps a little off-beat in your communication - which makes you interesting and may appeal to her emotions. For example, when you tell her about the latest movie you've seen, do include descriptions of how it made you feel, what thoughts and emotions came up for you. And be vivid, be alive! 

Another way to get her feelings flowing is by asking her about her favorite music. Get her to tell you how she feels when she hears that certain song; she'll re-live the emotions when doing so - just what you want! 

2) Take The Lead 

One thing you certainly don't have to hesitate doing is to take control of the conversation. That's because women just love a confident man. If she's not asking questions, or talking to you about something, or you just feel the conversation is lagging, grasp the opportunity. Show her that you have enough confidence to take the lead. Change the topic - choose something that you are familiar with and can speak about enthusiastically. 

3) Don't Drown Her in "Guy Stuff" 

When a conversation starts lagging, it's very tempting for guys to start talking about their hobby or passion. But please do avoid talking about male pastimes unless you already know that she's into them. And even then, watch out that you don't get carried away and overdo things. Women find a man who talks with passion very attractive - but not when it's an endless monologue! 

So, if the conversation slows, find a new topic. For example, you could ask her to tell you about her favorite activity... 

4) Leisure Pastimes 

All of us, both men and women, normally respond positively and with passion when we're invited to tell about our favorite things. Ask her to tell you about the things she loves. Is it music, or books, movies, sport? Or perhaps occasionally it's just doing nothing, except perhaps to cuddle up, or daydream and fantasize. Use the opportunity to examine mutual likes and dislikes, and find activities that you both enjoy and could use as a basis for future dates. 

5) From Pastime To Obsession 

So what does she get high on, if anything? Does she do drugs, or alcohol? Or is it religion, or saving the planet? Whatever it is, you want to know now rather than later! You may have one or two dependencies or "convictions" of your own which you should convey to her - if these are shared, then probably good and well. But do find out about her early rather than later - I mean, could you or would you like to live with a five-in-the-morning snorting habit? Or a thrice daily meditator? When just as she's getting deeply into it the bundle of joy starts yodeling for her mother's breast? 

6) Parting Shots 

Apply the five tips above and you should have at least not just an interesting date but also a lot of fun. Do remember, however, to ask a lot of questions - first date talk is (amongst other things) about finding out about each other. So do pay attention to what she says - not only will you learn a lot about her, you'll also pick up cues to ask new questions and lead the conversation in an easy and natural manner. 

Now go out and have fun!    







Picking Up Women In Night Clubs 
  
  Let me just be clear - night clubs are NOT my favorite place to meet women. 

The reason for this is that in night clubs, the odds are stacked AGAINST you. I am actually of the opinion that night clubs are best used for dates WITH girls, as opposed to going to meet girls in. 

Now, with that disclaimer, I realize a lot of men like to go out to night clubs because they are fun, and there are a LOT of women there to choose from. 

So if you know how to overcome the obstacles that night clubs present, they can actually be great places to pick up women in. 

To pick up girls in the club, you need to follow a few simple steps: 

1. Understand that night clubs are all about STIMULUS. 

Attracting attention to yourself in a night club is a great way to get noticed by girls. Try and dress above average. Wear clothes that are different and fashionable. Women love guys who dress nice, and if your clothes can attract attention to you, it'll make your job of meeting women easier. 

2. Attitude is EVERYTHING. 

Anything you can do to draw attention to yourself in a non-verbal way will be to your advantage in a club. Remember, you're dealing with a place that's loud and poorly lit, so having a confident attitude with the right body language is ESSENTIAL, because that's primarilly how you can communicate in a situation like that. 

Walk with a swagger. Make strong eye contact. Be flirty - smile, wink, and nod. Having an outgoing attitude will help you to attract attention. 

3. Use actions, not words. 

It's insane to try and hold a conversation in a loud club. Use actions to control the situation. Keep your introduction short. From there, you have some choices. You can take her by the hand and lead her to the smoking patio on the outside of the club. Or you can hit the dance floor. 

Either way, don't try to sweet talk her if she can't hear you! Instead, display confidence with your actions. 

4. Don't spend too much time with any one girl. 

Latching onto one girl in the club is a bad idea! You might find a girl you like and want to hang around with her, but you'll actually get more mileage by flitting around the club and meeting as much women as possible. 

Remember - clubs are about stimulus! Trying to do any one thing for too long will work against you. If you hang out with a girl too much in the club, she's going to get tired of you because you're now competing with all the other stimulus. 

Make the rounds - dance and talk to lots of girls, and come back to the girl you like. Don't worry, she's not going anywhere. Just remember these magic words when you do this: "I'll be right back!" 

5. Know How To Dance! 

I've stated that non-verbal communication is essential in a good nightclub pickup. And you can't get more nonverbal than dancing! 

Being a good dancer is a great way to attract attention. Girls love to dance, and if you can master the dance floor, you WILL impress them! Understand, many women equate how good a man dances with how good he is in the bedroom. (Strange, but true.) 

Take a few lessons so you can really strut your stuff on the dance floor, because in a club, that's where the real magic happens. Remember, if you can get a girl to dance with you, you can get her to make out with you! 
The key, overall, lies in nonverbal skills. Learn those skills, and you'll have major success in night clubs! 



    






Why You Shouldn't Use Pick Up Lines


      The reason corny pick up lines don't work is because they say a lot about the person delivering them. Corny pick up lines will only spoil your chances. 

Guess what? Did you know that there is a pick up line so alluring, and seductive that when used makes her melt into your arms! 

Really! 

No, Sorry just jerking your chain; but the quest for such a line has created an entire industry and men search for this magic phrase; like historians search for the Holy Grail. 

The reason for this powerful demand is men really believe they can compensate their shyness when approaching women if they are armed with what they believe to be a witty pick up line. Sadly the pick up line is far from being witty; it's downright corny and corny pick up lines tell the woman you are inexperienced and shy. As you know "actions speak louder than words" and a corny pick up line says you have low self confidence and nothing turns away a woman faster than a man with no confidence. 

Confidence is the key, if you have the right attitude, and your body language says you are confident; you can use a corny pick up line, or any other pick up and be successful. 

So, now you know what corny pick up lines really say about you, and why some can get away with it while others can't let's look at 10 really corny pick up lines: 

1.) Come here often 

Talk about lack of originality, this line basically says "I'm Bob and I'm lucky to put 2 sentences together." 

2.) Can I check your clothes tag? Why? Because you must have been made in heaven! 

Can you say loser! 

3.) If I could rearrange the alphabet I would put U and I together 

4.) Are your legs tired? Because You have been running through my mind all night. 

5.) You know what would look really good on you? Me! 

You would be lucky if you didn't get smacked. 

6.) Can I borrow a quarter? I promised my mom I would call her when I met the girl of my dreams. 

7.) Is you dad in jail? Cuz he stole the stars and put them in your eyes. 

8.)Is there a Ninja in your pants? Cuz your ass is kickin. 

9.) I've heard sex is a killer. Want to die happy? 

10.) The body is made up of 90% water and I'm thirsty. 

Some of these corny pick up lines are funny and some are offensive but the facts remain; when you are picking up a girl the way you carry yourself says more to her than what actually comes out of your mouth. 
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