Thursday, September 10, 2015

Men's Guide To Sex On: Seducing Married Women

     Today's post we are talking about seducing married women. I am going to cover how to meet, approach, seduce, and even date married women. There are benefits to dating married women that aren't there with a single one. It takes a lot of time and money to date a single woman. A married one is afraid to get caught, so they like nights in or long drives. They can only be out but so late. All of these things make it easy for you. You don't need to spend a lot of money or time to make her happy. The best part of the relationship is that it doesn't last too long, it's based on really great sex, and there is no commitment.



      Lets start with how to meet them. Work is always a good spot. The grocery store or book stores. In public social areas, the woman drinking at the club or bar alone is usually looking for attention. That is usually a career woman but you will find a wife there every now and then that just isn't ready to go home yet. That is usually the one that can be gotten quite easily. In a lot of cases, that night. Most wives are easier than you think. Unlike men women never stop looking for the perfect man. They also get board quite easily. Even if their husband showers them with attention and gifts, it gets boring and they long for something different. The husband eventually starts to take them for granted and they don't feel as attractive as they use to. They're not looking to leave as much as they are looking for a little fun and excitement.



  Next is approaching them. You want to move very slowly. They need to feel that they are not going to compromise their life so comfort is very important. The first date should be fairly innocent unless you are sure that an affair is her intentions. If it isn't, a coffee date or some other innocent activity will be fine. You just want her spending time with you. While hanging out just compliment her. Don't over do, just enough to make her feel good about herself. Make sure you talk a lot about her. Try to keep the focus on her. You want her to have a lot of fun hanging out with you. See if you can find things in common. So no disagreements and keep the jokes coming. Don't push it, but be playful. You want to smell good and look nice all the time in beginning. She isn't going to risk her marriage on just any slob. You want to jump on any opportunity to impress. Now you shouldn't really try to make moves in the beginning but if she is giving signals that she wants to move forward then don't stop yourself. Just be sure that you're going to be successful.


  To seduce can be a little tricky especially if she's happily married. Unlike a single woman you're only going to get one chance to make a move, so you need to be sure you're in when you make it. If you fail, it's done and she will never hang out with you again. What you 're trying to set up is a state of mind that the affair was  her decision or even better, her idea. After you have hung out a couple times, you want to start to do some innocent flirting. Point out something you like on women you see when you're out. It would be great if it's something similar that you complimented about her before. Example: If she has nice nails and you mentioned it before,
look at a woman in close vicinity and mention you admire the color on that girls nails. Talk about a color combination you like in clothing. Say you like ankle bracelets or long skirts. Something that isn't odd but not common. If you find her going a little out of her way to look her best when you hang out or doing the things you said you like. Then you know you making head way. That's when you start to treat her like she's single. Be a little bolder with your flirting. That's when you want to start making your moves.



   Lastly  I want to talk about dating a married woman. They have a marriage and family they don't want ruined. That is their first priority. So you want to set ground rules. You want to let her know that you're not looking to complicate her life or trying to commit to anything serious. Let her know she can end it at any time. When in public you need to watch your body language your and hers. It can't come off as being on a date. Asks her if she feels comfortable where you guys are when your out and ask if she wants to leave.. You should ask that at least once on every date. It's a good indicator to let you know how you're doing. If she's having adulteress thoughts, being in public with you will get to be uncomfortable. So if you get a yes one night, try taking a long drive to another town or a picnic to someplace remote to speed things along. Once you get to sex you need to deliver the goods. If the sex is bad, she will feel guilty and stop the affair immediately. So you need to put some effort there. 
     


   Now those are the tips to seducing a married woman. Married women are just like any other woman. Every woman has a scenario in their head where they would have an affair and married women are no exception. They may only do one night but if you're there when that night arrives, why not have some fun. With that I bring this post to a close.

By: Intimate Asking

Sunday, August 30, 2015

Men's Guide To Sex On: Tip For Dating Older Women




    This post is about getting older women. Older women are a great option for anything romantic. They are much more honest, and less insecure, so they are much better company. Especially when they are dealing with men younger than them. Now getting their attention and keeping it are two completely different tasks. So this post is about giving a few pointers in overcoming a few of the problems that may arise in meeting, capturing, and keeping their affections.


   The first tip is understand the situation. Older women rarely take younger men seriously for anything long term. So if you get her very quickly there is a good chance she doesn't have plans on keeping you very long. It maybe a case of even only wanting you for the night. Just so you know, if things move very smoothly for you, it's because she wants them to. They are a lot more experienced than you in life and that includes matters of romance. So she has seen and played most of the games that you try and run at her. Therefore they wont work unless she wants them to. Also don't assume older women are these horn dogs that are just after sex. The truth of matter is, woman in general are bigger perverts than men. Older woman are just more secure in themselves to understand that their sex life and self respect are not mutually exclusive. As a result sexual activity has more to do with what she thinks of him and less about what the potential partner thinks about her. Simply put girls get used women don't. Either they used each other or she used him.
 

 
  The second tip is be a gentleman. All those gentlemanly things that got you in the too nice category before with younger women are the keys to the front door with the older women. For them it shows that you know how to treat a woman. Not to mention they are usually done with that cocky young bad boy thing they liked in their twenties. Granted they never outgrow him, ( it's like us and huge boobs ) but they no longer seek or chase him. They have been there and done that. Now they seek a man that show appreciation for their time and attention. Not that games are behind her, it's more of her game is past you. When it comes to men her own age, they're getting much game. A younger man that she takes but so seriously and is probably just a fling at best in her eyes, just isn't worth the effort to play games. So your lack of games just comes off as maturity.




   Which brings me to the third tip. Be mature for your age. Don't be that loud obnoxious cocky guy that works with younger women. Be calm, polite, and well mannered. Dress nice with slacks and shoes. You don't want to keep doing and saying things that remind her of your age difference. She may not be as self conscious as younger women but she is still a little self conscious about the situation. She's asking herself, “what am I doing with this guy.” What will my friends and family think? Will people look at me as a cougar? Am I that desperate or lonely? You must find some common ground to show there I much more to the relationship than attraction. So unless she is really into younger guys or you are only after just sex then you want to appear to be as mature as possible.



  As for my last tip, this is the rule for all women. Be fun and spontaneous. Show the advantages of being with a younger man and demonstrate lots of energy and vigor. If you can remind her of her younger days even better. She will already be flattered that she is still able to get the attention of a man that much is younger than her but you can make her feel that much better by pouring on the charm. Tell her how beautiful she is. How you like what she's wearing and her style. Compliment her on anything and everything you notice. Don't spread it so thick that it's unbelievable but enough that it would be considered often. Let her take control of the conversation. You want to make her feel so much better about herself that she doesn't care about the age difference.


    Now those are just a few pointers for trying to get an older woman. So if there is a particular mature woman that has your attention, I recommend going out and giving a few of these suggestions a try. What's the worst that can happen? With that I end this post.




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Intimate asking

Wednesday, August 26, 2015

Mens Guide To Sex On: How To Be A Player


      This post is about how to be a player. There are several things that make a player. Now what they are is a matter of perspective. A lot of times it just who you ask. What one may call a player, some one else may call that same person a womanizer. It all just boils down to honesty and who your talking to. Sometimes it's just who got hurt. In any even whether you're a womanizer, player, dog, or just a guy who has a way with women, there are certain traits all of these titles share. So this post is dedicated to talking about exactly what these traits are and what is required to achieve that reputation.


      First off , you need a swagger. I way of carrying yourself that is irresistible to women. Not necessarily a tall dark and handsome James Bond type charm, but something most women respond to. Now granted that does make things easier in the reputation department but do you want the rep or do you want the women. Some of the best players are the ones that don't look or sound like player but get all the action of a player because of it. Not to mention they get the women that avoid players like the plague. I know one player that did his best work by just drifting in the friend zone. By being the best buddy, he would just hang out and then create sexual tension from time to time to get what he wanted. Then always fall right back into the friend zone when the unsuspecting female tried to take it further. The best part about it was the friend zone thing was her idea in the first place, therefore she had no right to complain about him trying to stay there. That is just one instance. In any event, you do need to have something about you that women respond to, that makes you good company. Remember, women don't hate players, they only hate being played and all of them like the idea of taming the beast.



     After that you need to have the right mindset. Commitment is never even considered. Any woman that gives you her heart is asking to have it broken. It doesn't matter if she knew you were a player or not. So know all encounters are not to be taken but so seriously. Also no woman gets too much attention. There are not special. You only make them feel like they are. Feeling aren't something you have, it's something you control. You also need to be bold. In matters of seduction, control is something women have, enjoy, and do their best to keep. They don't plan on surrendering it easily. Women are a slave to their emotions. You need to be bold enough to take charge of the situation and reach her emotion so she doesn't have much choice. Knowing when to make an exist is also part of this mindset. That also means every woman has a time limit. You are never in one place for too long. You may have a time frame in your head but it is flexible. Depending on the situation, you can and will deviate from the plan.  



     Third is your interactions. Having a way with word is the key to having your way with women. You need to have a certain charm. The more original the better. Funny is always a plus. Having a good time with women is the thing that makes you stick out from all the other alpha males. It is also the reason women talk to you even though they see the dangers of a probable heartbreak. You should always know what to say. Therefore you need to be clever because a player has to make quick decisions. Even though you know what to say, you always watch what you say. It's imperative that you're mindful of these things. It might come back to bite you in the ass later.





     Lastly you need the skills. Sex can't just be an activity with you, it needs to be an experience. You need to be able to seek out and deliver a fantasy. Not just in the bedroom but the whole randevue. The kissing, the touching, the foreplay, and especially the sex. It all needs to be some of the best she ever had. Women talk and if you deliver the good and your rep is out there, that you are always available, being a player will get much easier. So make sure you know your shit.


      Now those are the cues on how to be a player. Good luck on this venture. It is easier said than done. Once you get a little practice and figure out exactly how it's done, it can be very fun. With that I bring this post to an end.




By intimate asking.

Sunday, August 16, 2015

Mens Guide To Sex On: Reading Sexual Body Language


     This post I want to talk about body language. To be more specific, sexual body language. We all know there are signals women give off to let a man know she's interested but sometimes we aren't sure of what she's interested in. So this post I want to talk about a few body signals that are specifically to say she's thinking about sex. It is important to recognize these signals as soon as possible because when it come to sex the window of opportunity is very small. If you snooze you loose. Therefore recognizing these signals and acting on them quickly is imperative for success.


      The first sign is physical contact. When a woman is touching you she is trying to convey that she is comfortable with you and at the same time trying to find out if and how comfortable you are with her. So you definitely want to touch her every time she touches you. Now in a bar situation she is doing this it's not only letting you know how she feels about you and seeing how you feel about her, there is also a let every other woman in the bar know this one is mine message being delivered. She isn't doing that unless she's making plans. Also when she is exploring your body by touching your arms, chest and back she is trying to relay a message. Another physical contact sign is sharing food. If she sips your drink or offers a sip of hers, that's a sign that she's probably considering it. That is a way of getting intimate very quickly. Maybe on a date she starts sharing her food or stealing yours she is trying to send a little bit of a hint.

      The next series of signs are about what she says. Compliment in general are signs she's into you. Compliments on your body parts are a sign she wants you. Things like chest or butt are her way of telling you the interests are sexual. Another strong hint is her bring up sex. Women rarely bring it up unless it's really on their mind. Now be careful with this assumption. Women do like to dick tease from time to time and this could be her way of doing it. Even then, they don't usually waste time dick teasing a guy they don't find attractive in the first place (unless she is trying to feel better about herself). A big conversation sign is talking about an ex lover or give detailed stories of past sexual experiences. She is definitely trying to tell you something.

      The last group of signals are relative to her. Things like sitting with her inner thy exposed. Also nervously playing with her clothes and unfastening buttons are a very blatant sign that anyone can recognize. Also stealing chances to take glimpse at your crotch, butt or chest is a dead give away. There is some thing called triangular gazing, where a woman looks at one eye then the other then the mouth and keeps doing this while talking to you. Doing that is a huge sign of sexual tension. Flaring nostrils and dilated pupils also suggest a that she wishes a little more was going on.


       Now those are a few signals to look for to see if a woman is sexually aroused. Figuring exactly when a woman is ready for sex is a trick that can be hard to measure. I hope this post is helpful in helping you with such a difficult but necessary task.




By Intimate asking

Wednesday, August 5, 2015

Mens Guide To Sex On: Setting Up Booty Calls

    This post is about booty calls. Not to be confused with the friends with benefits situation, the booty call is strictly a call come over and fuck type situation. Today we are going to talk about some of the pros and cons and how to properly set them up. There are many benefits to booty calls. Easy sex being the biggest one. It doesn't stop you from dating and it makes it easier to hold out for sex when you are dating but there are a lot of setbacks as well. To be honest there are a lot more setbacks than there are pros. For one you better believe some one will catch feeling and screw it up. That is usually the female. Another drawback is some one usually says something stupid and make the other feel a little weird about it. That' is usually the male. Respect, talent, and complications are the issues when it comes to booty calls. The trick is to find some one who doesn't have enough respect for you as a boyfriend so she doesn't want more than just sex, but the sexual chemistry is so good that it's worth the complications. I know it sounds easier said than done but all in all, if certain rules are in place and you can find a willing participant it can be a really fun sexual option.



      Lets start the talk with setting them up. The first thing you need is a willing participant. The best target for this is an ex. You want one that broke it off with you and isn't angry with you. If she left you for money reason, then that's perfect. They make great targets for several reasons. One they don't have any hang ups about sleeping with you. Second they know how you like it and vice verse. Third it will be easy to set up this kind of situation with her. Just call her kind of late one night and ask what she's up to. (You don't want to do it too late when she might be sleeping) Just say you was in bed thinking about her. When she ask why, or what you were thinking, just have a story of when you two were together sexually. Trust me when I say she will get the hint. After the romp, say to her it doesn't need to be a one time thing. Then explain and set some ground rules. Another great target is older women. They are usually horny as hell and they don't usually take younger men seriously as long term partners anyway. You should wait until the relationship turns to her starting to suggest just getting to the nitty gritty instead of hanging out. That's when to strike and make the suggestion. Not the first time she does it but the second or third, preferably the third. After the third time is when you want to try it. Just call her kind of late one night and after activities, say you have begun to notice a pattern and why beat around the bush. Another great option is a female friend that is always changing boyfriends. Just seduce her one night and say how fun it was afterward. If she doesn't act weird about it later. In a couple of weeks do it again, then make the suggestion. If you were any good she will go for it. Be careful though, you could mess up the friendship and she might just be doing it to get something deeper a little later. You might want to do it a couple times before trying it. A friend's ex that they don't care about is probably a good target for this as well. Especially if she hates the friend and wants to get back at him. Just clear it with the friend first.



   Now once you have your participant, you need to set some ground rules so that it works out for everyone. First a few for the both of you. I would start with a sleep over hour. This one is what decides if anyone stays over. You pick an hour ( it should be constant ) that the activities are done, if it's before that particular hour then parties go their separate ways . If it's after that hour then it's stay the night. Both parties in mind should keep this in mind before making the call. Another suggestions, is to use texting codes and not actually call. Something could be said to turn the other off and that blows the whole thing. Just something simple like 911 or 69 with a respond text of E.T.A. 9pm or whatever. Just something to ask and say yes or no. The last tip is to limit the amount the each can make each week or month. So that no one feels like they are obligated to be the others sex slave in waiting. You want to present it as a release in time of drought between lovers, not a permanent solution. Now those are just a few suggestion for both parties. As for suggestions directed to just you, I would suggest don't ask about her intimate life outside of you. Also don't share anything about yours to her either. You don't want her thinking to much or reanalyzing the situation. Also try to keep the sex to a minimum. You want everyone to orgasm but you do need to try to eliminate marathon sex. Unless she is really into it. Make sure the sex is great and mix it up from time to time. Don't turn her down unless you absolutely have to. Women get petty and could end up playing games with you.
By:
Intimate Asking

Sunday, August 2, 2015

Mens Guide To Sex On: The Texting Code


     With all of today's modern advances, communication has become a bit of a challenge. With emails and texting being the main form of communication for so many women, phone calls and love letters have fallen to the same level as the telegraph and smoke signals. Throw in the pop culture abbreviations, picture, and punctuation, it could leave even the smartest of scholars confused. So this post is for figuring out the texting code. There are good texts and bad texts, it all depends on how you look at it. This post we are going to give you the inside track on the texts she sends and what they mean. What she texts will give you an idea of how she feels about you and the situation. How you respond to those texts will make or break you. Women are constantly trying to figure us out, so they use texts to do it. Text are a good way because they can focus on the words you use instead of just what you said. In any event, I don't see why we can't do the same thing. With that being said, lets get to it.


   Lets start with some of the bad texts because those are the easiest and there aren't that many. If she doesn't care, she won't waste a lot of time texting you. If she makes a really stupid excuse why she can't hang out (playing with my dog) then she thinks you're a lowlife. Talking about other guys with you isn't good either. They hide other men from other guys they believe have potential. If she doesn't text you before her birthday or right after her birthday then you have messed up somewhere. One word texts are really bad. Women really hate them. So if she gives you one then she really doesn't care. Another sign she doesn't care anymore is bad spelling and grammar. The older a woman gets the more she cares about that sort of thing. If texting is her main source of communication, the more she tries to communicate the more she like you. The less she communicates the less she cares. Know if she has a lot of guy friends and everyone gets texts then her texting you could her just being friendly. Other than that, the more texts the better.

   As for the good things in texting, there are a lot more. If she texts you a lot then she probably likes you. Like I said before, the more text the more she likes you. Forty or more texts is obvious sign that yes she is into you. Putting a lot of XOXO's, smiley faces and exclamation point are all great signs she is into you. Texting comments on a string that ended hours ago is another sign. She is definitely into you if she send these long winded texts, being goofy, or talking about random things. Pictures with her in them are for you and a dead give away that she like you. If they are with her friends it doesn't necessarily mean anything. When they are with you then she is trying to connect and share with you. Mentioning bed, shower, or getting dressed is her way of flirting. If she mentions activities, she is trying to get you to ask her out. Texts that suggest she is checking up on you or asking for advice there is a very good chance she is crushing on you. Those situation is just her trying to make a connection. Women need to make a connection with a man to have anything intimate. Late night texts is a sign she likes you. At the bare minimum it's an attempt at a booty call but it a sign that she at least trusts you. Sending texts about her looks is her fishing to see what you like about her. Saying things like I love you or care about you are ballsy and she wouldn't say it unless she wants some moves made.

  
  Now those are a lot of the texting codes and their meaning. So pay attention to what she text's you. Women that do a lot of texting give away everything without even knowing it. So don't let these things confuse you. So here is where this post comes to an end. So go send some texts.
 

By:
Intimate Asking

Wednesday, July 29, 2015

Mens Guide To Sex On: Interracial Dating

    This post is about interracial dating. Some people have tried it. Some haven't but when it comes to guys, we all want to, if not for just experimental reasons alone. So on this post I want to cover some of the do's and don't s and how to go about it. As guys we let our curiosities and sexual desires get the best of us sometimes and forget that there is a person attached to the vagina we are trying to penetrate. In other words we are just plane insensitive sometimes. To be violated by anyone is degrading enough but to be violated by a bigot is just salt in the wound. Now you may not see yourself as a bigot but that female may not know that you are just insensitive and not a racist. Women are just as racially curious about us as we are about them but they wouldn't want to be some one's sexual guinea pig. So they assume that we're the same, which is entirely untrue. We don't mind being a sexual exploration. Not only do we not mind but hope we can live up to any positive preconceived notions and discredit all the negative ones. If her curiosity is sexual, as long as you create a little sexual tension you will get laid pretty quickly. If it isn't just sexual, then you can bet it's a little bit more than curiosity. With that being said, I want to cover a few things that might help things go a lot smoother. 




   First lets cover the don't s. Do not think just because she is of a different race, you can't get her. It might even be to your advantage that you are a different race than her. Don't go into it with any preconceived notions. Any stereotypes are just that, stereotypes. Even when they are proven to be true it's usually a matter of it being the individual and not with the race. Don't do anything different for her that you wouldn't do for any other girl. Chances are with her it is one scenario or the other. She has either dated outside of her race before and has an idea of what she's getting into or she hasn't and isn't going to let race rule out potential. She is looking at you as an individual and is looking forward to getting to know you as such. She wants to know your likes and dislikes whether they are culturally motivated or not. Don't date her to fulfill any curiosities either. Women know a lot of men do this and she will be looking to see if that's what you're up and she will figure it out. If that happens unless she is just sexually curious as well you are dead in the water. To make this easy, if you look at interracial dating as anything more than two people that just happen to be of different races, that want to see each other, you probably shouldn't do it.

    Now some helpful hints for those of us that have not dated outside of our race. Go for common ground at first. Once you get steady on common ground. It will make the differences that much more exciting later. Things like food are a good place to start. Everyone likes good food. So go to a neutral exotic restaurant on a first date. The second tip is to have a good sense of humor. Everyone loves to laugh. It will also make handling the foreseeable problems easier to deal with as well. Be very open minded. Don't be inhabited by anything. Trust me when I say the excitement alone is worth it. This is when you let curiosity guide you. You want to discover things, not ask about them. Also don't be afraid to show her your world and what you like to do. You will be surprised to know that you are more alike than you realized. People are people who for the most part want the same things in life. When you don't date inter racially, you rob yourself of some really exceptional experiences. So with that being said, don't let race stand in your way of getting some really hot women.


By
Intimate Asking

Sunday, July 26, 2015

Mens Guide To Sex On: Creating Sexual Tension

     Building sexual tension is probably the most important part in seducing a woman. It's what will get her in the position you want her in. Whether it's for a relationship or something purely sexual. Woman are a lot more like us than we want to admit. When it comes to sex and relationships, there are very few differences and there are a lot of exceptions that make those differences go away. The three main differences in us are options, frustrations, and opportunity. We all have all three. The difference is the reasons why. Women's options are limited because of connection and spark. The amount of available guys that are capable of making a connection and creating a spark are few and far between. So that creates a lack of opportunity, therefore a certain level of frustration develops. For men figuring out how to connect and creating the sparks is the problem. That is the reason for our frustration. There are no limits to opportunity because we are the main one's responsible for initiating contact. So every woman we pass is an opportunity. Which brings me to the point of this post, if you can make a connection, she is hoping you can make a spark. Sexual tension is that spark and this post is going to tell you how to do that.



          To build sexual tension there are a few things you want to remember. The first thing is to be relaxed. If you're relaxed it will make it easier for her to relax. Women are very in tune to your body language. That's how they do most of their communication. Not being relaxed can give off any number of bad vibes. That is the advantage bad boys, players, and even married men have over the average guy. They are already getting sex, so they're not desperate for it. They always have a very calm and laid back demeanor towards sex. They're just looking for the next conquest. If they don't score, they have something lined up as back up just in case what they are going for doesn't work out. Which brings me to moods, moods are contagious. Ever go to a great party in a bad mood and stay more than two hours? Do you leave that party in a bad mood? How about a funeral of some one you barely knew, are you sad when you get there? Are you sad when you leave? This is what I'm talking about. The mood gets reflected. This is what you need to do in building sexual tension. Not only do you need to do it but you need to do it properly as well. So not being relaxed is the first huge mistake most guys make. Not being relaxed gives off a lack of confidence. Another mistake is getting too flirty or sexual too early. That gives a needy desperate vibe, or maybe even creepy, also not good. Waiting too long to get sexual or flirty as well makes a few problems. Women are bigger perverts than we are ( Social etiquette are the only reason they don't make it known ). So in their mind, because of the many men hitting on them once they get in their head that you are not a sexual option, it's on to the next one. Simply put, be confident and relaxed from the beginning or you're defeated before you even start.

   Women are emotional creatures. So to make a connection is easy. Talk about emotional topics. Family, friends, and future plans are all emotional safe topics .The trick is not sounding generic. Being generic puts you in a position of counting on your looks. If you're really good looking, she may be willing to let you get away with it a little more than most guys but you will get old fast. You want to stick out. Being generic doesn't make you stick it, it makes you look like every other guy before you. When you seem different than the other guys she has been talking to, she will want to try and figure out why you are different. That's how mysterious factor kicks in. Mystery is very important when creating sexual tension. She has a pretty good idea on why you are talking to her but until the flirting starts, there is a level of uncertainty and a woman's insecurity intensifies it five times. So as long as you're a mystery, she will probably keep talking to you. So being a little ambiguous about your intentions at first is in your best interest. Now these are the first stage of building sexual tension. As you continue to talk to her, start to use using subliminal messages. By simply using key words, you can stimulate certain emotions. Words like passion, love, tight, position and yes. These are all words that have a sexual undertone that if use innocently enough can and probably will get her sexual juices flowing. The trick is to use them innocently without coming off sexually or even flirty. If you do this properly, you will peak her interests.
    



     Now this brings me to the final portion of creating sexual tension, reflecting the mood. Once you have peaked her interests, you want to start thinking about her in a sexual way. Maybe imagine her in the positions you want to get her in. Think about how you want to kiss her. Before you say something to her, say in your head ( not out loud ) “I really want to tear your ass up but,” then say what you really was going to out loud. The trick is to change the mood in her mind by changing the mood in yours. Trust me when I say she will pick up on the vibe. Now if she isn't responding go back to respectful and ambiguous immediately. You can always try again later. If you are doing this and she is responding or even just still there, means you have done it right. Then it's just a matter of flirting. Flirt without coming off as cheesy, and she is yours to do with as you will. With that, I end this post and send you forward to conquer.

Wednesday, July 22, 2015

Mens Guide To Sex On: Getting Out Of The Friend Zone

     We have all been there, the dreaded friend zone. At some point in time in our life there has been some girl that we wanted romantically is some capacity. It doesn't work out that way because she saw us as just a friend. Now what makes one just a friend and not a lover in a woman's eyes differs with each girl, with each guy, and with each situation. Now to be honest, it is usually a case of the guy not being able to create a spark. You obviously made a connection or you wouldn't be a friend in the first place. At some point you either failed to create a spark or you turned her off and you didn't creep her out. Women are selfish creatures and bigger perverts than we are. They usually look at men as sexual potential in some shape or form or they don't have much use for us. So if you're in the friend zone, at the bare minimum she see you as some one to at least boost her ego from time to time. So the good news is you can get out of the friend zone. Which brings me to the point of this post. Today we are talking about how to get out of the friend zone.


       Now to get out of the friend zone, we must first figure out why you are there in the first place. Also you may need to find out if she knows you like her in that way. If she doesn't know it could be just a matter of making your feeling known. In that situation, there is a possibility the only reason you're in the friend zone is because she doesn't think she can get anything else. In which case, shame on you for not have enough balls to make a move. Now to get back to why most are in the friend zone, like I said before women are very selfish creatures and there is a chance she has you in the friend zone to use you. It's the buy the cow, milk for free rule. For her you are too needy and desperate and doesn't respect you enough to be her man, but you still have uses. You can boost her ego for when she is feeling down after a break up. You are good for free drinks when at the bar or some one to pick her up at the airport. To be honest you can even move up to booty call if she is desperate enough and no one else is available. In that case, don't expect it regularly because she knows you are hoping for more and she doesn't want to encourage you. She only does it because she knows she can do it and not feel like a slut later. Unlike some stranger she met in a bar and hopes to never see again to avoid the walk of shame or even worse, an ex that might think he's still has some hold on her because of it, with you there is a level of control. Then there is the case of she isn't using you but she is just being nice to a very good person that deserves respect. She isn't a bitch and understands that you're a nice guy that will make some girl happy, just not her. She would love to hook you up with one of her friends. Then there is the case of which she just sees you as very bad boyfriend material. This situation is usually means you have a personal issue she doesn't want to deal with (finances, past treatment of women, culture). When you figure out which one you are, then you can figure out what to do about it.




     Once you figure why you're in the friend zone, you need to decide if getting out is worth it. You need to decide this for several reasons. First reason is once you get out, it will be damn near impossible to go back to the friendship you had. So if you have been friends for years it might be in your best interest to remain just friends. Now if you are friends just so she can get the benefits of a boyfriend without the commitment, then you need to ask yourself is this thekind of person you want as a partner. The fact that she feels it's OK to use anyone for any reason says a lot about her as a person. You really shouldn't judge people but when you are talking about your significant other, you really don't have a choice. The last reason to ask yourself is it worth it is because you may have to change something about yourself. It is never a good idea to do something your not comfortable with or pretend to be something your not to impress some one else. In other words, the purpose of this paragraph is to say it might be better to move on to the next girl if this one won't appreciate you as is.




      Remember this there is a difference between changing who you are and bettering yourself. Which is what needs to happen. You are trying to get your crush to see you in a different light. We all have flaws. There are things in all of us that could use some improvement. I am suggesting that you present yourself in a different light. So first get healthier. Try eating better and getting in better shape. Maybe even the opposite, if you're that gym rat in great shape who gets a lot of girls and your crush sees you as shallow or full of yourself. In which case you need to show her that you aren't as bad as she thinks. Then work on being more productive. Getting thing accomplished that you wanted to but always put it off. Work on being less emotional or becoming more spiritual. Just try to improve yourself in any way that you see is better for you. After you have demonstrated the new you. This is when you want to make your move. Ask her why you are in the friend zone. If she has seen the improvements and has changed her mind, she will probably say I don't know. Then you should suggest maybe you two should work on changing it. If it is a teasing no, I'm not sure or anything that resembles a hesitant no, then it has worked. She just wants a little effort. Then get her out on a friendly date and create some sexual tension. If it's a definite no with a legitimate reasons, then you got a little more work to do. Also try dating some one else and make sure your crush knows about it. Ask her advice on what to do for the new girl. You want to give the impression that the new girl is getting spoiled. That's the thing about women, they hate to miss out on a good thing. If they don't want it, they don't want anyone else to have it either. They are competitive and a little controlling. Another girl in her position of controlling you is a little threatening. Now if that doesn't work that usually means there is just some one else in your way. In which case you just need to be patient. Cause like I said before women look at men as sexual or she doesn't have any use for you. So you're just waiting on your night of her being desperate and want to feel better. Then you knock her socks off in the sack and you're in. Now those are the ways to get out of the friend zone. So stop wasting time and go collect that girl you've been crushing on.

By
Intimate Asking


Sunday, July 12, 2015

Mens Guide To Sex On: Why Older Women Are Better


     This post is dedicated to older women. Older women can be a relief from younger women in so many ways. Younger women can only compare physically and even that is a matter of opinion. Take that out of the equation, and it's like fine wine. It only gets better with age. Then it's a matter of how much can you drink before you get drunk. To explain all the reasons why an older woman might be a better romantic option for whatever intimate needs you require would take a book, but because there are so many it will not take long to make my point. So lets stop wasting time and get into it shall we?



     First of all, younger women want attention. Older women want respect. Her sex appeal comes from how she carries herself. Even if she has a nice body, her mind is what will get you wanting to tear her clothes off. Simply put she knows the difference between being sexy and looking slutty. Sexually she is young enough to do it often and old enough to do it well. They are at their sexual peak and will want it more than you do, and they knows exactly how to get it from you. They also have at least a decade of practice under her belt to make it worth your wild. Also depending on her experience, she is probably more willing to experiment. Younger women are usually very indecisive. They have no idea what they want. Even when they get what they think they want, they usually change their mind after they get it. To take it one step further, when they loose it (or get rid of it) they want it back when they see some one else with it. Older women know what they want and go for it when they find it. Which brings me to the next benefit, all women have a certain amount insecurities but older women handle them so much better. In other words a lot less games. They get to the point. When it comes to communication, I can't tell you how helpful this is. She is going to tell you what you need to know and when you need to know it. She isn't going to bitch at you, scream at you or yell at you and there is no hinting. She is going to talk to you directly a put it bluntly. They are also patient and once committed They are willing to work with you. They will put in the effort that you put in. The young girls are not patient and when it's not going the way she likes it, they usually bail. There is a higher level of responsibility with older woman that you can't find with younger ones. You can depend on her, even lean on her. She will depend on you a lot less and wont depend on you for things you can't provide. Young girls use the things you can't provide as an excuses to get rid of you. Now the best part about older women compared to younger women is their honesty. They will like you for more genuine reasons. It won't be anything other than you being you for he being there. She won't be there for your money, your car, or your status. Your personality is the only thing that can and will win her heart.


   Now there are some common traits and qualities that usually apply to all women regardless of their age. They all want fun, have a sense of adventure, lust for life, and an appreciation for a real man. The difference from the older woman compared to the younger one in these areas are, when it comes to fun an older woman knows how to have fun no matter who she's with. Even if you aren't her cup of tea, she will find common ground as oppose to a younger one who expects you to bring it to her. Also an older woman usually try to make sure you are having as much fun as she is. Her sense of adventure isn't limited to what she wants to do and going to what is considered popular. She is looking for the right travel companion, not just looking for who can afford to take her. She is helping with the bill. Her lust for life is different because of her experiences. They see life differently than their younger counterpart. So she is so much more emotionally, spiritually, sexually, physically and financially put together. She doesn't need anything, it's just a matter of what she wants. To get her all you need is you. What you bring to the table determines how long you stay. Which brings me to liking real men. Younger woman have a preconceived idea of what a man is or at least should be. When you don't measure up to it, she holds it against you. Older women realize that there are all kinds of men in this world and the fun is trying to figure out which one you are and experiencing what you have to offer. Turn her on and she will do her best to give you the experience of your life.
 

    I could go on and on about how an older woman are better than younger ones but like I said before that's a book, not a blog post. To get one just be yourself and let her decide how much she want to deal with you. They are very smart and can spot bullshit a mile away. So honesty with a direct approach is the best policy when approaching them. They will let you know very early if you're being successful. Just be confident, sincere, and attentive then see what's up. Any event I hope I have convinced you enough to at least go and see if I'm right.