Mens Guide To Sex On: Interracial Dating

    This post is about interracial dating. Some people have tried it. Some haven't but when it comes to guys, we all want to, if not for just experimental reasons alone. So on this post I want to cover some of the do's and don't s and how to go about it. As guys we let our curiosities and sexual desires get the best of us sometimes and forget that there is a person attached to the vagina we are trying to penetrate. In other words we are just plane insensitive sometimes. To be violated by anyone is degrading enough but to be violated by a bigot is just salt in the wound. Now you may not see yourself as a bigot but that female may not know that you are just insensitive and not a racist. Women are just as racially curious about us as we are about them but they wouldn't want to be some one's sexual guinea pig. So they assume that we're the same, which is entirely untrue. We don't mind being a sexual exploration. Not only do we not mind but hope we can live up to any positive preconceived notions and discredit all the negative ones. If her curiosity is sexual, as long as you create a little sexual tension you will get laid pretty quickly. If it isn't just sexual, then you can bet it's a little bit more than curiosity. With that being said, I want to cover a few things that might help things go a lot smoother. 

   First lets cover the don't s. Do not think just because she is of a different race, you can't get her. It might even be to your advantage that you are a different race than her. Don't go into it with any preconceived notions. Any stereotypes are just that, stereotypes. Even when they are proven to be true it's usually a matter of it being the individual and not with the race. Don't do anything different for her that you wouldn't do for any other girl. Chances are with her it is one scenario or the other. She has either dated outside of her race before and has an idea of what she's getting into or she hasn't and isn't going to let race rule out potential. She is looking at you as an individual and is looking forward to getting to know you as such. She wants to know your likes and dislikes whether they are culturally motivated or not. Don't date her to fulfill any curiosities either. Women know a lot of men do this and she will be looking to see if that's what you're up and she will figure it out. If that happens unless she is just sexually curious as well you are dead in the water. To make this easy, if you look at interracial dating as anything more than two people that just happen to be of different races, that want to see each other, you probably shouldn't do it.

    Now some helpful hints for those of us that have not dated outside of our race. Go for common ground at first. Once you get steady on common ground. It will make the differences that much more exciting later. Things like food are a good place to start. Everyone likes good food. So go to a neutral exotic restaurant on a first date. The second tip is to have a good sense of humor. Everyone loves to laugh. It will also make handling the foreseeable problems easier to deal with as well. Be very open minded. Don't be inhabited by anything. Trust me when I say the excitement alone is worth it. This is when you let curiosity guide you. You want to discover things, not ask about them. Also don't be afraid to show her your world and what you like to do. You will be surprised to know that you are more alike than you realized. People are people who for the most part want the same things in life. When you don't date inter racially, you rob yourself of some really exceptional experiences. So with that being said, don't let race stand in your way of getting some really hot women.


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