Tuesday, September 27, 2011

Men's Guide 2 Sex On: Picking Up Women

Are you struggling when it comes to finding, meeting, and picking up women? If so, here are some guidelines to help you succeed in finding the women of your dreams!

Do you want to go out and pick up a woman tonight, but have no clue where to start?

Many guys get lots of bad advice about picking up women from their friends and family who know even LESS about how to get a girl than they do. Even so-called "Dating experts" that you see on TV usually don't know what they're talking about because they have to cater to the feminist media! (And truth be told, the mainstream media looks down on any tactic that could help guys get laid!)

Understand: Learning how to pick up women is not a politically-correct topic!

You want some practical advice that can really work, that you can start to use right away. Fortunately, you found this article. So let's get started!

Let me first tell you what you DON'T need to pick up women.

You DON'T need to look like a "male model."

This is a huge mistake that almost all men make. Little do they realize that close to 85% of women place more importance on how a man makes them FEEL as opposed to how he actually LOOKS.

So if you don't think you're a very attractive guy, don't worry! There's still hope for you.

Second, you DON'T have to spend a lot of money or drive an expensive car!

Many of the best ladies men I know never spend more than $30 on a date - heck, some of them don't even own a car! (And if they do, it usually isn't a very nice one!)

Most women don't care how much money you make or spend on them - IF they actually like you! And a big part of picking up women is to get them to like you, isn't that right?

Finally, you DON'T have to be famous, be a certain type of ethnicity or nationality, or anything else you can think of.

Understand: Personality trumps every other obstacle you think you have to getting a girl to like you!

When you know the right way to talk to women, nothing else matters.

Unless you're currently a master pickup artist, you may not have a whole lot of success with women right away when using these tactics - after all, it takes time to practice and learn from your experiences. But if you actually apply what you've learned, you'll soon find your success with women will skyrocket!

In order to learn the quickest, you'll want to go out as often as you can - particularly when you're first starting. You don't have to go to nightclubs or other high-pressure environments to meet women, but they are great "practice grounds" because there are SO MANY women there to meet and talk to.

No matter what - if you want to get better, you need to devote some time every day to go out and pick up women. The more you do it, the better you'll get!

You probably won't have much success at first when you start going to clubs, but other people will actually start notice a change in you as your confidence goes up. Every success and failure in nightclubs will also helps to reinforce the things you need to do when you're picking up women, and the things you need to avoid.

Remember: The more experience you have, the easier it'll be.

The most important thing to remember about going out to pick up women is to gain experience!

When you're going out to pick up women and gain experience, it's important to look as good as you possibly can!

(Notice I didn't say "good looking." I said "look good." There's a difference. You can't control what you look like, but you CAN control your appearance - your hair, your tan, your clothes, etc.)

Take the time to dress as nice as you can. Find clothes that look good on you and tailor them to fit. If you're not into fashion and don't know where to start, ask a female friend who's very fashion conscious to help you find the right types of clothes.

Keep in mind - you don't NEED to dress nicely to meet women, but it will make it much easier on yourself if you do! Not only that, but the better you look, the more confident you'll feel.

Be on the lookout for opportunities to do pickup. You can find attractive women just about anywhere. And if you notice that she's given you the eye, it would almost be a sin not to start talking to her!

Remember - ever good pickup follows a very simple structure. This means there's a series of steps to picking up women you can actually repeat time and time again and get the same results.

The structure is:

Find the girl.

Meet her.

Talk and Gain Rapport.

Build Attraction.

That's it! Four simple steps. You'll find that if you're able to effectively meet women and gain rapport with them, you can build attraction quite easily. 

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